Re: What should I do? 
this is a silly excuse, if OP and her rishta fall in love the guy’s family doesn’t really matter, its their life, not their parents’. I love my family, I’m open to arranged marriage for myself, but if I marry someone I love I’m sure my family would understand. Maybe my family is different, but I don’t think they’d chose my relative’s pride over my happiness and guilt me into marrying someone I don’t really want to marry, maybe we’re not getting the whole picture, maybe OP’s rishta wants to marry the other girl, but this is information we’re not privy to.