sfm123
April 7, 2012, 9:22pm
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Re: what should i do?!
My mom and i have been having loads of fights and i don’t know what do you. I just feel so hurt.
My MIL to be asked me if i wanted a new set or if i wanted to wear an old set of hers. she sent me a pic of it and i loved it. Even thou it wasn’t what i had imagined i would wear to my wedding, i still liked it a lot and i said i would be happy to wear it.. I looked like one of the jewelry M_was_here posted of her mothers. And since i loved them i was very happy about it.
However, lately, my mom has been making alot of issue about the fact that my MIL isn’t giving me a new set and thinks it’s cheap. She made me a new set for the wedding and feels that they should too.. My mom is giving me a small set that was her own, and says that these sets are for memory and it’s not for you to wear at your wedding, where you should wear something new.. My MIL is giving me two of her own sets, they both are pretty big, almost double the size than the one my mom made for my valima. (which doesn’t bother me cause i wanted something small for the valima.)
I have been telling my mom that i really like the set they are giving me but she still keeps bringing it up and points out whenever she can that can call them cheap (including my husband-to-be) and what not. I feel very hurt and i’ve cried so many times. I don’t know what to do..
To be completely honest, nothing you say or do can change the judgement of others when it comes to family n inlaws. Stay quiet, the issue will blow over and before you know it youll be married n wont evn think twice about the issue.
Dont get on anyones bad side or go back on your decision, as it will reflect badly on ur character. This too shall pass…