I have a friend whose marriage is settled and engagement and marriage dates are fixed,and he made travel arrangements for both, he didn't disclose to anyone except to his roommates as they can catch anytime while speaking on phone, But some how I came to know this info, and felt bad as he didn't tell this to me, as i meet him after years and we talked for almost 6 to 7 hrs, though i asked about proposals and all he said still looking, i felt bad as he is lieing to me, so here is the thing , I want to send him a message saying just Congrats and no details about marriage, he may understand by this message so then he will ask him how do i know about this, will he thinks i'm hacking his info as i was using his laptop yesterday though it contains no details about this, or shall i keep the secret as secret(anyway i won't tell this to nyone as this is his personal) , thinking that there may be some strong reasons why he didn't reveal this info
what should i do
How did YOU find out his engagement/wedding?
If you found out this information from his room mates..........then his room mates can get into trouble.
This guy is NOT obligated to tell you about his engagement/wedding.
How does his engagement/wedding affect your life? You friend didn't tell you about this khabar..........kya aisa karne se tumhari zindagi khatam hojaye gi? Kya tumhay koi nuqsaan hoga?
Maybe your friend did not want to tell that many people about his future plans. Maybe he had his own personal reasons for why he did not share this information with you. That doesn't mean that he doesn't like you as a friend. It simply means he's a private and reserved person.
Think about this........if his engagement/wedding is not going to affect your life, then just let it go and move on. You can also congratulate him after he gets married.