Hi every1!
Iam in a great dilemma,and need you people’s help in order to solve it.
Me and this guy have been in love with each other for over a year now.We both have even told our parents about each other,but,there is a problem that,our parents haven’t agreed to our relationship yet.But,we both have convinced each other that we both would make our parents agree.We both live far away from each other,so we usually do not get to see and meet each other that much.Our modes of communication are through emails and phone calls.Things have been really good between us,but for the last one month,things have started to change.he has been giving me less time,and that’s not because his life has become busy,its just simply.And also,if I say anything,he would make a big issue out of it.There is an issue between us,and so because of which,he is angry with me,and he isn’t answering my calls,neither he has replied to many of the emails that I have sent to him.
What do you think can be the reason for the change in his behaviour?Has he got someone else,or is he being insincere to me,or doesn’t he love me any longer or what?
What can I do regarding all that?I know breaking-up and moving on can be one thing,but,that’s really hard for me.Can you people suggest me some other ways?I actually do not want to lose him.Pls help me that what should I do?
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is this an online love thing? if so..i say delete him..its not worth it
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Its part of long distance relationship. Well he is angry with you and you are trying to make things better is a short term goal. But in long term I feel its not suitable. Either get married asap or just back off. No point frustrating over some thing that is so far.
Talk to him seriously and decisively. Take action and get over with it.
I know its easier said then done, but I think that is the most practical solution to it, but if you are planning to make a whole bollywood movie out of it, than its your choice.
Good luck ![]()
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You learn about a person you need to see them in real life and spend time with them. You can not learn anything via the internet.
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I say, you stop calling him and emailing him completely. If he tries to contact you and make things better, it might be worth a shot. But if not, then this is a signal you have to move on.
A relationship cannot be one-sided because it takes two to tango.
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Any man wanting to have a relationship with a woman does not simply disappear and get 'angry' with zero communication or explanation. Its apparent that either he agreed to his parents' wishes and 'dumped' you or he simply moved on. Either way, you need to gather yourself and move on too.
When someone doesn't give you enough respect to even talk to you about the issue, you end up disrespecting yourself when you chase after them.
Listen to your parents, they are right.
Any man wanting to have a relationship with a woman does not simply disappear and get 'angry' with zero communication or explanation. Its apparent that either he agreed to his parents' wishes and 'dumped' you or he simply moved on. Either way, you need to gather yourself and move on too.
When someone doesn't give you enough respect to even talk to you about the issue, you end up disrespecting yourself when you chase after them. Listen to your parents, they are right.
I agree, it seems like he's telling you something through his actions. Either way, back off and try to move on. I know it's hard, but the more you invest in this relationship-that seems to be going nowhere-the more you're going to get hurt in the end.
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ur one of those that experience marital issues while not married. some1 who is married, correct me if this is not a martial issue. she sounds as if she's married too.
1 rule you have to remember in life, until you're not married to that person, never ever place him/her at the husband/wife level. if you do, you will suffer no doubt ; )
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ur one of those that experience marital issues while not married. some1 who is married, correct me if this is not a martial issue. she sounds as if she's married too.
1 rule you have to remember in life, until you're not married to that person, never ever place him/her at the husband/wife level. if you do, you will suffer no doubt ; )
very true!!!