perhaps it’s being tough now,…!!
i dunno…but for some reason (or may be for no reason)i’m really being short tempered!
i yelled at my 3 yrs old soooo badly …he was in shock…n then cried …!
i can’t believe it…!!
i’m being soooo cruel…!
now , after putting him to sleep…i feel like crying …
dunno what should i do …??
i’m tired!
Seek professional help maybe?
is that ur solution to everythign? therapy?
Well I think you said it yourself Afia.......you're tired.
Don't feel so bad about it, he'll have forgotten about it by the time he's woken up. You have 3 very young children and it's pretty exhausting work managing that and run the household. Everyone's entitled to an off day.
:(
Afia baji 
i do that too sometimes be mean to my loved ones.
and i hate myself for it afterwards too…
anger is a really bad thing :S
dont worry…u have done nothing that 99.99% of mothers dont do 
hmmm…
they say the best way to combat anger is read “aozobillaheminshaitanirajeem” and then drink a glass of water. if u r standing, sit down and if u r sitting, lie down. i think its a hadith.
dont worry…kabhee kabhee har koi aisa kar jata hae…as long as u know u wont do it again, thats whats important 
Re: what should i do....???
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i'm tired!
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You should ask your hubby to take some off days and help you in your "housework". That would give you some time to rest as well.
i'm sorry ....i don't know why i wrote all this.....!
i think it was just one of those bad days.....
n well...i think i was really tired ....constantly busy frm 5 a.m. till midnight ...n getting 5 hrs of sleep ....kids , school, household.....i just couldn't control my temper when he was fighting with elder one fotr 6th time in an hour ....!
but well...i think i'm back in senses now ....:-)
irem...u r right .....i knew these things but forgot in anger ....thanx for reminding....bless u!:-)
shahreen ...:-) i'm ok now ....u know exactly when n how i came back on track ...(how is icecream boy..??)
umer....he isn't here ....n well when he is ...he does help me ...more than i deserve!
>>constantly busy frm 5 a.m. till midnight ...n getting 5 hrs of sleep<<
Putting some 18-hour-days here and there is one thing, but if this is becoming more of a regular feature than you need to sit down with your spouse and figure things out. Human body and human mind has a capacity, and while we may pride ourselves on taking on a lot, its not a good idea to put so much pressure on your body and mind on a consistent basis. If you need to re-arrange your schedule some what, you need to do that. If some of the responsibilities need to be delegated, it should be done.
well, i know what you r talking about !
but i'm not doing it for pride etc.....i do it coz i have no options!
n btw, its not regular ...i do sleep for around 7 hrs on weekends :-)
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You should ask your hubby to take some off days and help you in your "housework". That would give you some time to rest as well.
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I think that's a good idea coz its not easy to look at ur kids and do
the house work both together.