What should I do with this "busy" boy?

[redvelvet]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

No need to put OP and her parents down. Jo hogaya so hogaya, the trips can't be undone. Concentrate on the present, Star. If you don't feel good/respected, don't wait for him...move on. It would be harder if you had developed feelings for him...(and now I'm wondering if you kinda sorta have)...although u shouldn't have as he's nothing more than an acquaintance.

[Enterprise]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

Lol, he already has a girl-friend.

[nabz]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

i think her first sentence mentioned his parents are in the MIDEAST...as in mid east USA. so calm down people, i dont think her parents flew halfway across the world to meet this dude's family.

he doesnt seem genuinely interested tho...so i would not push it.

[Guac]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

^LOL that makes it much better

Good thinking.

But I have to say, living here I have never heard of people say 'mid-east' .......mid-west yes, but not mid-east

[Sara516]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

^LOL that makes it much better

Good thinking.

But I have to say, living here I have never heard of people say 'mid-east' .......mid-west yes, but not mid-east

same here....never heard of Mid-east US, but mid-west, west coast, east coast, south east, south west. etc

[Paheli00]

Re: What should I do with this “busy” boy?

@nabz

i think her first sentence mentioned his parents are in the MIDEAST…as in mid east USA. so calm down people, i dont think her parents flew halfway across the world to meet this dude’s family..

OP also actually wrote “Middle East” too.

@star1234

A couple of months ago, my parents received a rishta from a family residing in the Mideast with a son working in NYC. They asked me my opinion and I said why not..lets meet this guy. So my parents and his parents decided that we should all come together (we live in Canada and so getting everyone in one place was kinda hard because of visas etc. ) they decided it was best we met at guys home in Middle East.

[Guac]

Re: What should I do with this “busy” boy?

^The consequences of skim reading

[Muzna]

Re: What should I do with this “busy” boy?

now I really do want to know if they actually flew to the Middle East to meet with this family or not…

[queer]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

is his phemlee's last name assad? if so i might know vhy he busy busy in middal east..

[PersianPak]

Re: What should I do with this "busy" boy?

He's probably trying to play it cool and hard to get? Why don't you do the same. Whatever is supposed to happen will happen. Although, if you really like the guy and think that he's the one for you then ask him straight to the point of what's been happening. Talk it out. It'll be hard but at least you'll know his train of thought won't you?

[blackdiamond]

Re: What should I do with this “busy” boy?

You aren’t committed yet, if you don’t have a good feeling about it, move on! You’ll have a thousand better guys around, a lot more interested than this one. It is the girl’s “hand” they ask for not the guys’ so you should be the one rejecting him for all the reasons you have.