what should i advise my friend?

[farrah]

@Reha

Yeah but what is HE supposed to think about this time off? See…when you’re in a marriage…its not about just YOU or HIM anymore…its WE, US, TOGETHER.

She can take time off but there is no guarantee that he will want her back after she is done. No man wants a woman that will desert him in his time of need. He will remember this and feel betrayed forever. This is the wrong time for a separation.

i completely agree with this …

@Decent_6Chora

Reality of life and it hits you hard. Despite all that sweet talk (or may i say bull$hit) around that money is not important etc etc, money IS important and it effects relations specially when one in the relations is really fond of it. For such people everything seems to be falling apart and lacking if $$ is not there be it a $ex life or any other aspect of life.

Although its very hard to judge your friend with such little 2nd hand information but she seems to have not understand what marraige means. Wife and husband are for good and bad times. Anyone can stand behind you when you are earning $$$$$ but litmus test is when you are down and first person you look towards is your spouse.

I’d have said all this to your friend and then leave it up to her to decide. you cant force anyone to live with anyone. If your friend still inssist on leaving the guy, I think its better for guy too. he will not depend on false hopes from your friend.

and this is true as well … i can only advise her .. it’s upto her to take it or leave it … i hope she takes it though …