Re: What should be done?
just let go and part... i think thats the best way to move on with life without each other. Personally i think its best to part on bad terms so that u wont b tempted to contact him =) I know thats mean lol i aint advising it, its what works for moi =)
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The lets just - be - friends line is usually used to soften the blow. He is either a coward and doesn't really mean it (but would never admit as such to you) or he is really quite selfish and wants the priviliedge of having you around but on his terms entirely, albiet in a non-commited capacity.
If he liked it, he shoulda put a ring on it and then kept the ring there.
U're an individual.. not a puppet! If he's suggested parting ways.. make a clean break with no strings attached. Men say all kinds of strange things.. why should you follow it blindly.
He no longer wants a relationship or loves you, move-on..not point in being 'friends'.
But these all are not easy to be done :(
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what exactly you think you can do?
eloping?
ps. you cant do anything.
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^ Nothing?:aq:
Most people know how accepting their parents are. If there parents are the hardcore arranged marriage ONLY type then these people should not be starting relationships in the first place (unless they are willing to leave parents). All they are doing is playing with peoples emotions.
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^ I second that!
The lets just - be - friends line is usually used to soften the blow. He is either a coward and doesn't really mean it (but would never admit as such to you) or he is really quite selfish and wants the priviliedge of having you around but on his terms entirely, albiet in a non-commited capacity.
If he liked it, he shoulda put a ring on it and then kept the ring there.
Ya and he won't stand up 4 u, just let it go. He doesn't care enough, and neither should you
If a person can't stand-up for you, why give him the satisfaction of being 'friends'?
The lets just - be - friends line is usually used to soften the blow. He is either a coward and doesn't really mean it (but would never admit as such to you) or he is really quite selfish and wants the priviliedge of having you around but on his terms entirely, albiet in a non-commited capacity.
If he liked it, he shoulda put a ring on it and then kept the ring there.
I am acknowledging your magnificence.
^ of course, if you don't have any self respect.
Ditto!
Re: What should be done?
Leave him...it will be painful but it has to be done.
In any given relationship...it takes two to tango...and in this case you dont even have a willing partner. So who will you tango with? It will be humiliating for you to drag this relationship when your partner obviously isnt as committed to you.
It will be hard and there is barely anything anyone can say to soften the blow or make it easier to understand...you simply will have to move on. Find closure by dissolving the relationship and do NOT make the mistake of staying friends with him. Right now you are in too much pain to be friends...give yourself some time and space away from him.
If a person can't stand-up for you, why give him the satisfaction of being 'friends'?
Exactly!He's being selfish,and wants you to be friends just for his own sake,just to have you around!
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sighhhhh loves difficult aint it
I third that. :k:
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^lolzzz
Most people know how accepting their parents are. If there parents are the hardcore arranged marriage ONLY type then these people should not be starting relationships in the first place (unless they are willing to leave parents). All they are doing is playing with peoples emotions.
Umm, this is easier said than done - the only way people can prevent themselves from desiring a partner of their choice is if their parents raise them as people who are unable to think for themselves, i.e. think through their parents.
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^^ LOL. No.
BUAHAHAHAHAHA u are a truly janwaar. Gurl listen to dis dude, seriously no reason to be friends with him. Its not going to help u get over him. leave him. ull find someone better who is willing ot fight for you and not make a joke out of u by saying LETS BE FRIENDS. He isnt mature enough to handle a relationship sweety.