what should a girl do if pressure raises daily

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SALAM
every one knows that in our society girl should b married in her late 20s atleast other wise she will face the hamdardy sort of thing in her daily life so what should a girl do in this situation if she is in her early 30s and have not find a suitable RISHTA for her :woho:

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Re: what should a girl do if pressure raises daily

Prob the best thing would be to move to the west. The age of marriage here is more and more commonly into the 30s. Or perhaps find your rishta from here.

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Re: what should a girl do if pressure raises daily

I know the sort of pressures you can face if you are not married by "respectable" age - but believe me this is better than saying yes to a non-suitable rishta just to keep off pressure. You and your family should consider suitability in all aspects before saying yes...to a life-long commitment.

If its you that you are talking about Good luck.

I know its not just about social pressures but Biological clock ticking away....makes it a whole lot worse.

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Re: what should a girl do if pressure raises daily

its all in ur kismat..if that happens 2 sum1 then they should not panic and jus keep lookin and not feel pressurised in2 doin anythin and not rush into a relationship just because they think they are "too old"

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^ Exactly

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It's your life, get married when you find someone you want to marry, or when you feel its right for you, don't let pressure from society dictate your life, i know its easier said then done, but do whats right for you.

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I've seen too many marriages get screwed up because the girl "compromised" and married so that she wouldn't feel "old" in her marriage. Its not worth it. Find someone you can tolerate living with. People see marriage as just some romantic whirlpool. You have to live with this person. You don't move into an apartment with a crazy roommate you can't get along with, right? Its not that much different.

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Re: what should a girl do if pressure raises daily

spot on!! and for ppl to stop b.s'ing u hav to hav a strong personality. you hav to tell them off in some way or the other that u'll get married when Allah wills for it to happen! NOone can make it happen sooner or later!

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thanks to all of u u who replied me .Mamoaf u said find ur rishta from here well rishta is not kind of a thing that u find easily its tough job any ways thanks nice Gup shup:)

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just ignore wot ever ppl say…n always keep in ur mind tht wotever happens is fer ur betterment(is tht a word :S ) …so her kaam mai Allah ki masliat hoti hai ..