WHAT MOST WOMEN WANT IN A MAN, Original List ... (at age 22)
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1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially Successful
4. A Caring Listener
5. Witty
6. In Good Shape
7. Appreciates the Finer Things
8. Full of Thoughtful Surprises
9. An Imaginative, Romantic Lover
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wah....chand saal pehlay bilkull aise hi the hum.....
yaar humsafer,
mere haqq meN idher koi bhi kyuN nahiN bolta????
why yaar?? please write, where i can get such properties?
age doesnt matter, yaar.
;) ;)
Ok girls are all weird...they want guys to be understanding, mature, listen to them, and all that...and then they say just be ureself...and that's the total opposite...what's up w/ that?!
it's like a paradox, U girls see shehzad roy and go bonkers over him, and we're like hello boy friend still living here!!!and Ure like but jaan it's shehzad...thennn if....we see some gorgeous chick and happen to look at her, we get bitched soooo much...soo I just wanna know...wassup wit dat?!
I remember from my medical school in Pakistan.When girls came in first year they were usually very proud.When a guy name was mentioned.They would say"WHO is he?".Later on in 3rd year they would say"WHAT is he".And at the end of 5th and final year they would say "WHERE is he?".
Any how in all fairness.Man is like a brass.The more it goes in fire the more it is changed into Gold.And women are like wine the more they age the more mature they get.
[This message has been edited by Her dil aziz (edited August 07, 2000).]
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Originally posted by Her dil aziz:
**I remember from my medical school in Pakistan.When girls came in first year they were usually very proud.When a guy name was mentioned.They would say"WHO is he?".Later on in 3rd year they would say"WHAT is he".And at the end of 5th and final year they would say "WHERE is he?".
Any how in all fairness.Man is like a brass.The more it goes in fire the more it is changed into Gold.And women are like wine the more they age the more mature they get.
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Why am i soooooooooooo sure that u have one ?? ;-)) .. here is a suggestion start wearing glasses and rest them on the middle point of ur nose.. it wont look that big .. .. and yeah yeah thas what i do too .. so no cheesy comments..
Well I've adequate nose, unfortunately not big but not small either. But there is a logic behind a big nose i.e. more money & good marital life. A man with big nose is financially strong and cares (more friendly with his wife) about his wife (well its a saying I am not sure its true or not).
so u r saying since u have adequate nose adn not a big one u are not that financially strong.. neither do u or will u care about ur wife that much ?? .. u know if we are financially strong its not that hard to find a wife who cares a lottttttttttttttt.. .. not sure about though if she will care about you or the money u hold.. now that is bound to spark a few fires.. but hey its true..
It's all a matter of fate. People who believe in themselves, don't pay much attention to "surfacy" things. Now if someone is good looking, they don't get the credit for it, cuz they didn't create themselves. If someone is not good looking, it's not their fault either. It's the person inside and the character one has that all matters and the person do get the credit for it cuz everyone makes their own innerself. Sure looks do matter to some extent, but looks and money aren't the end of the world. Money is pure luck. If one has money in their fate they will get it. Education, inner person (personality), thoughtfulness, sense of caring and good decent sense of humor, and finally maturity that's all that counts.
agree on almost everything but that money is not pure luck ..u work for it and one deserves credit for that.. its the laid back attitude that wont take you anywhere.. you have to work for money thast for sure.. and umm looks matter to a great extent.. ask me how ?? u only associate with a person who qualifies the looks criteria of urs.. cause the first impression you get of a stranger is from how he or she looks cause u dont knwo much about him or her at that time.. thank goodness for everybody having a diff perception of beauty or else we would see only one kinda ppl getting married and others just waiting in lines .. ;-) .. i will b the first one there i am sure.. ;-) in lines i mean.. :)
I put this joke in Joke Section of this forum few days back. It needs to be here again :)
A man walking along a California beach was deep in prayer. All of a sudden he said out loud, "Lord grant me one wish "
Suddenly the sky clouded above his head and in a booming voice the Lord said, "Because you have TRIED to be faithful to me in all ways, I will grant you one wish" The man said, "Build a bridge to Hawaii, so I can drive over anytime I want to." The Lord said, "Your request is very materialistic. Think of the logistics of that kind of undertaking.
The supports required to reach the bottom of the Pacific! The concrete and steel it would take! I can do it, but it is hard for me to justify your desire for worldly things. Take a little more time and think of another
wish, a wish you think would honor and glorify me." The man thought about it
for a long time. Finally he said, "Lord, I have been married and divorced
four times.All of my wives said that I am uncaring and insensitive. I wish
that I could understand women, I want to know how they feel inside, what
they are thinking when they give me the silent treatment, why they cry, what they
mean when they say "nothing" and how I can make a woman truly happy"
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After a few minutes God said, "You want two lanes or four on that
bridge?"
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Originally posted by Ahl_e_Sunnah:
**Ok so U mean U girls wouldn't even want to go on one date with shehzad roy?!
I mean all U say is he's nice, and all that, but looks do matter, like at least 20%
i wouldnt go on a date with him, hes way too much of a bachaa, hes too young and imature, i like my men with a bit of a body!!! no offence to shahzad roy of course!!
ur right looks do matter, how many women would be happy with a guy the considered ugly? and vice versa
personality is more important but if u like someone thye have to be pleasing the eye haina?
exactly my pointtttttttttttt.. they have to look good too.. or atleast they should look good to u if to nobody else.. ;-)) oh only if shehzad roy knew 'chann mahi' he would have had a rock solid built too .. ;-))
if i am not mistaken 'channmahi' ji claimed to have a good body since he is a heavy weight lifter.. ;-))
[This message has been edited by Yankee (edited August 09, 2000).]
Yankee, sure one has to work for money, but that's where the education part comes in and it sorts of relates to personality as well. People who are educated, and take advantage of that education do earn handsomely. One doesn't have to be a billionaire, trillionaire to be happy in life. Looks do matter but only to a certain extent. One can't reject a person based upon their looks. If you see a face which causes u to stop blinking, yet behind that face is the ugliest heart, then that face is of no value. Same goes with money. If a person has money, yet lack humbleness, what is that wealth or education or face worth without humbleness, modesty, dignity and grace? Exterior beauty with an empty interior is like a beautifully wrapped box which is empty from inside. If a person has looks, with a genuine, solid inner then all the best. If they are not the most gorgeous, but have the inner self, that still counts. Beauty is in the eyes of the be holder.