So I came across this profile of a guy (cute might I add!) on a marriage app and he says he wants a girl that will sweep him off his feet.
Any tips for me?
Boy needs somebody to clean his floor with a broom. The sweep comes in when you ask him to raise his legs
I think the guy who wrote that in his profile has a good sense of humor. Usually girls demand such things in their profiles so he gave them a taste of their own medicine by writing that.
He could very well be joking as Decent has suggested. Though, I wouldn’t write that even as a female, lol. It kinda brings to mind the image of one jester after another trying to earn the king’s applause.
But more seriously, “sweep me off my feet” is a rather vague requirement. If that’s the only criteria he’s listed on his profile, then it’s like placing the onus on the girl to impress/mesmerize him to the point that he’s besotted with none other than her, lol. That’s a lot of pressure. That beginning stage is exciting and heady and it really does feel like you’re floating and that your feet are not touching the ground. But eventually the rude awakening of reality sets in and brings us down to earth, doesn’t it?
With that said, I suggest that you just be true to yourself because that’s the only way you’ll find out if the other person is compatible with you. There’s nothing wrong in being funny or witty to make a conversation more interesting. But be yourself and be honest and you’ll find out soon if you both are on the same page with values and expectations and goals. As cute as he is, he’s still just an imperfect human like yourself. He, too, comes with his own share of flaws and sins, he wakes up in the morning with eye-boogers crusting the inner corner of his eyes, and he belches and passes wind like the rest of the mortals. (You’re welcome for that mental image, :p)
Go with the flow and be yourself. Don’t lose yourself in “what he wants”…because he has to be right for you as well. It goes both ways. Best wishes.
Joking on a marriage app, and not dating? I doubt it
Um yea, my two rather one cent! dont use apps. Go for organic growth
Sounds like something Meg Ryan would’ve said in a 90’s rom-com.
I always assumed that it’s women who want to be swept off their feet more-so than men.
Have you checked him out yet? i.e. found his socials to see if he has any? Figure out his likes and dislikes? Maybe he’s woke, or maybe he’s just a regular guy. The latter is preferred.
Also, if he has his gender pronouns stated in his Twitter/Instagram bio, it is a massive red flag.
Huge lack of effort from the guys on marriage apps, but I guess the same goes for me....I didn't stick around long enough in the process. Good luck to ya!