What makes a woman approachable?

Lifestyle Relationships
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You know, so you just have to meet and talk with her.

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Is that you Monk ?

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lol

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it's her 'smile'...

"haNsii to phaNsii" to sunaa hii hogaa? ;)

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confidence or beghariti in the guy make every girl approachable. Girl herself does not need to have any qualities.

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^ there is a fine line between being confident and being a be_Ghairat! :hmmm:

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If a girl wants to be approached or talk to you, she'll make it known. She'll smile or not put on a tough front.
And if she's not interested, she'll simply ignore you or act disinterested in your conversation.

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ah so that saying from university "hasi tu phasi" was right all the way and I kept on ignoring it thinking its just a myth. Too late now :(

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But again, it doesn't mean "phasi" - notice I just stated what makes a girl approachable. Whether she wants to make you her husband or bhaiya is up to her. :) A lot of people mistake kindness for possible flirting. You just have to pick up on her cues.

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can you teach us? i can bring more students. I am sure @TLK would be interested and many more...

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Sure grab a cup of chai and let’s get this session started.

A couple of cues I can think of are:

  • flattery
  • keen interest in the boring details of your life
  • asks about your family and mentions hers
  • questions your future plans and brings up her own details despite you never asking her
  • any mention of marriage, how many kids you want, where you see yourself in the future - slipped in casually through conversation is a major hint
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Dang, are you sure because I have been sake these questions many times and I always thought it was just a talk which people make. I am horrible at cues ... So many lost opportunities

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I was always bad in theory classes. Can we have practical lessons?

:chai:

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Well I don't usually interact with Hijabi chicks, not that I avoid them but I know they're most likely really conservative and religious, they brother-zone any non-mahram guy.

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I wouldn’t say all of them. I had an eye opening experience with 2 hijabi friends. They were good friends of mine back in college and then lost touch when I graduated. Recently, I found out from mutual friends that they both are pregnant from their boyfriends. I am in no way generalizing but I have seen the other side too. But yea, most normal hijabis I believe are conservative.

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Oye me Student? I am already a Phd on this topic bhayya

If a girl had asked me this during first mulaqat, I would have vanished from the scene faster than Pond’s Vanishing Creme

Oye hoye, some one is mistaking kindness for possible flirting.

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itni samajh nahi hai na mujh main, jabhi tu class lai raha hoon :chai:

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I find that hard to believe, even the skankiest Muslim girls wouldn't get knocked up before marriage...

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Man, looks like most women at work are interested in me, based on above.

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believe it or not its true and you would be surprised how common is that. Albeit, they were not pakis though (egyptians)