Do guys really get attached to girls? Doed this attachment make them contact the girl and talk to her/ spend some time with her? Do they want to take more time to decide on the girl or they want to spend the time developing good relationship and friendliness with the girl which will definitely help them in their future relationship?
aahh i missed this part, was a bit busy…hmm so you desi menfolk have to be in a serious relationship and not just in the “getting to know you” stage to miss a woman??? woah
This is very true. I would want my favourite meal to be something my wife would make, and in her own unique way.
Your first mistake was getting an Xbox.
Lol seriously though, I would miss her if I could joke around with her and then she wasn’t there anymore, I love mindless, witty banter. The sex if it was happening. The food (if she could cook). Smell is very strong in reminding people of their loved ones too, if you smelled something that reminded you of her that would probably cause you to miss her.
It’s kind of hard to answer this because it just makes me think of things I find attractive in a woman and not really anything specific. It would be more situational than anything. Like seeing or doing things that remind you of her.
Let’s turn it around, what would make a woman miss a man?
you two are so cute , was way too busy making ethernet cables at the lab so only got to read up to that post. later when i get more time, i’ll read your replies and think through it which always takes a lot of time for me and then give a detailed reply, i’m weird that way
I exactly know where this is comin from & why you have asked us this question.... Men wants freedom, no nagging at every single thing, and if they feel that you are not compatible, he is unwilling, then your out of the picture. Its a phase of life where they might not want to get married, stay single, and enjoy their lives without the commitment/relationship with other girls....
Here are the tips:
NO CONTACT RULE!!! IT TRULY WORKS...
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The first easy way to make a guy miss you is to disappear completely.... They will definitely miss you, even if it's only out of curiosity.
The boy probably expect you to wallow around depressed over them, so you need to become elusive. Get active. Go out a lot.... Be seen everywhere having fun or at least looking like you are fine/happy without them not being around.
The few times when this guy contacts, make sure you appear upbeat and happy to see them. This shouldn't be hard.
nice, the absence makes the heart grow fonder is very true but what if that gives him the wrong signal that you aren't interested.........i guess if he really sees you as something more, he would try his hardest to get in touch with you even if you aren't so available. i wonder if all men would be like that though, the ones that emotionally torture or are pros at that would probably not make the effort..........
actually this isn't a personal question to be really honest, inspirion's thread and that issue was what got me thinking about it. hoping it'll help her too. but you've made some really good points here.
@partyslims
loved what you wrote, some women would be like that too, there isn't an immediate attachment. but i can definitely see myself getting attached to someone I've known only for a few months and feel a connection too......a major flaw in me.
Smell is very strong in reminding people of their loved ones too, if you smelled something that reminded you of her that would probably cause you to miss her.
I m in the 'get to know' phase as well. The families have interacted and we have chatted a few times with a gap of 2-3 days only. I think he likes me and i too like him somewhat. :) But i have noticed he talks less and follows the diplomatic approach since things are yet not final where as i am more talkative and honest openly, so far.
But now i am in the same situation; dont know what i should say and what not? whether i should be witty? stay serious? try to ask deeper questions? try to maintain distance and stay quiet? be my ever blabbing self? Try to be close by sharing secrets? let him be? Just be myself no matter how talkative i am? Act super happy? or what .. ? If the spice goes right at the start then its going to get boring. What approach should be there?
^good questions what if he’s just shopping around and all those days of talking get a gal to become attached to him but he’s talking to all these other women too. I would hate that. darn emotions and all that getting attached stuff! some women are able to handle that others not so much…
oh men of GS your assistance is needed! :k:
praying hard:p:hoping they don’t start talking about xbox games and ipads
Well, if you convince him you’re in to gaming and ipads, you’ll probably end up standing out more than the other girls he’s talking to, so a greater chance for attachment to you over the others, unless of course they also convince him of their interest in such things.