You say this thread is for those who don't want to be married and then you ask what makes you call her or miss her? I am confused, man can only miss a woman if he is in a relationship with her.
I exactly know where this is comin from & why you have asked us this question… Men wants freedom, no nagging at every single thing, and if they feel that you are not compatible, he is unwilling, then your out of the picture. Its a phase of life where they might not want to get married, stay single, and enjoy their lives without the commitment/relationship with other girls…
Here are the tips:
NO CONTACT RULE!!! IT TRULY WORKS…
Absence makes the heart grow fonder. The first easy way to make a guy miss you is to disappear completely… They will definitely miss you, even if it’s only out of curiosity.
The boy probably expect you to wallow around depressed over them, so you need to become elusive. Get active. Go out a lot… Be seen everywhere having fun or at least looking like you are fine/happy without them not being around.
The few times when this guy contacts, make sure you appear upbeat and happy to see them. This shouldn’t be hard.
I think the question is: WHY DO YOU GUYS MISS YOUR LADY (whom who have decided to marry some day soon) AND WHY WOULD YOU WANT TO CONTACT HER IN THE DAYS BEFORE THE MARRIAGE OR MARRIAGE IS FINALISED ETC?
Nisha, I’ll attempt a serious response for you. Assuming sex is not on the table, attachment.
Now don’t go asking what makes you attached to another person.
I wanted that one when I saw it. The one that I have now is the Halo 3 limited edition, which I bought back in 2007. I was thinking it would be nice to have the Halo Reach one too.
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See, even a game console can figure it out. If a machine can do it, you should be able to figure it out too.
Nisha, I'll attempt a serious response for you. Assuming sex is not on the table, attachment.
Now don't go asking what makes you attached to another person. :P
Do guys really get attached to girls? Doed this attachment make them contact the girl and talk to her/ spend some time with her? Do they want to take more time to decide on the girl or they want to spend the time developing good relationship and friendliness with the girl which will definitely help them in their future relationship?
I think that during the "get to know you" phase....if a guy enjoys the woman's company....then he will miss her when she's not around. She wouldn't have to "deliberately" be absent for him to miss her.......she could even be away because she's truly busy and he'll miss her because he likes spending time with her.
You can play hard to get as hard as you want, but if he's not even remotely into you......then he's not going to miss you. OR...he might "miss" you because he's curious about where you went and why you're not giving him the time of day....but I think that curiosity would stem more from a desire to stroke his ego than a genuine interest/concern/desire for the girl. I doubt that one would want to be missed for that reason.
I do feel that some space/distance is healthy for relationships in general (not only confined to romantic ones).
I think that you will be missed by a person if you provide something that he/she wants or needs.....and that something could be deep and meaningful or it could be much less than that. What also matters is one's standards for what they want out of the relationship and how they want to be perceived.
Do guys really get attached to girls? Doed this attachment make them contact the girl and talk to her/ spend some time with her? Do they want to take more time to decide on the girl or they want to spend the time developing good relationship and friendliness with the girl which will definitely help them in their future relationship?
Yes, guys get attached to girls too. Yes, the attachment makes them contact/spend time with her. Yes, sometimes they want more time to decide, sometimes they don't need more time to decide. Why do you sound so surprised about it?
Yes, guys get attached to girls too. Yes, the attachment makes them contact/spend time with her. Yes, sometimes they want more time to decide, sometimes they don't need more time to decide. Why do you sound so surprised about it?
I just thought guys take it non-seriously and do not get attached easily... obviously they find it very easy to move on, they can spend their time with many women at a particular time etc etc...
I’ll talk about past experiences, so there is no generalizing going on here. Again, I am not speaking for all of mankind lol, so yeah there you go!
It usually starts with friendship. I think after high school/college there’s never been like omgz I gotta have her type situation at first sight. Most often, you get to know someone, most likely someone you probably didn’t expect to meet. You become friends and stuff. As time passes, you start to talk more, becoming closer, and the barriers around the heart come down. You probably don’t even realize it and then one day BAM! It hits you. You’re like omgz I gotta have her! It’s just a realization that you are feeling more for the person than you would for just a friend, and it can be a beautiful thing. And yes, then you do get attached to the person. Anyway that’s all the embarrassment allowed for today.