hard experiences in life
emotional strain
pressure of too many things at the same time
virtues of patience and sanity
or pure luck
Re: what makes a good person become better?
Dushwariyan
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^lol
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@ Shikki
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sadkey jaoon.
Re: what makes a good person become better?
hard life experience..and patience.
Re: what makes a good person become better?
people around them, and their values (ie-religion)
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thats true too..summer..
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even Allah fogives, then who are we to monitor others.
as long as it is not immoral; and a waste of life.
i think admonishing is alright, hel;pong to change is really noble, but outright lumping of one's own values in a self righteous way on others, is not good.
it even makes the other person, out of spite, not to be receptive.
what do u feel about this?
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Aap sadkey na jaaen, aap life1 mein jaaen 
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mhmmmmm
after they face hardships
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ISLAM - makes them the best, not better.
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i agree with the first part "who are we to monitor othres?"
i disagree with the second one! :"as long as it is not immoral"
because first "who are to we to judge what is moral and what is not?"
and second "do you mean we should monitor people that do not agree with YOUR moral standards"?
you basically disagree with my moral standards, because i think that the world would be better off with the death of those who wanna kill humans whith different opinions than them....
but that would lead some disturbed people to kill, for the same reason that in the first place lead them to discard those they wanna kill, so they would have to kill themselves. Sure that is absurd, cause it is proving that no moral judgment is grounded. moral is absurd and judging people is absurd.
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on the other hand islam can also make bad person be worse...but you like to see only the nice side of things....i mean the side of things supporting your views....hence they are flawed
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I'm sorry, Islam cannot make anyone worse.
People can make islam seem bad, but Islam itself cannot make anyone "bad". It can only make them BETTER for humanity.
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really?
so when someone is doing something “good” and reading quran/hadeeth, you say islam is making him better
and when someone is doing something “bad” and reading quran/hadeeth, you say it is not islam:D
that’s double standards, and a poor logic:hoonh:
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^ huh? I dunno if you're getting the logic.
Lemme explain,
If a person is following the deen of Allah swt, then he is doing good.
If he is disobeying the deen of Allah swt, then he is doing bad.
The deen of Allah swt is Islam.
Therefore Islam can only make someone good.
Reading Quran and Hadith isn't islam. Your whole life should be lived according to Islam.
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Re: what makes a good person become better?
owning up to one's mistakes,
a refined sense of self hood and charting one's realizations which one might have not gotten to - can also make a person become a better person.
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