Re: What kinda BS is this??
I think that sometimes American (or western) Pakistani's integrate so much into this western culture that we forget where our backgrounds are from. Honestly living in America it is hard for me to understand this too, but when I went back to Pakistan last summer I realized that its true....that beti sirf do din kay liye ghar mein ho thi hai, phir puri zindagi aapnay susral ki ho ja thi hai.. Ur mom will always be ur mom, but ur mother in law is I guess like ur "new" mom. Just try to think of it in a positive way....u go into marriage with a positive attitude things will inshallah stay postitive for u....go in with open arms not closed...u will be happier that way (inshallah) trust me!