Re: What Islam Teachs Us Abt Love ?
But i wan to ask this question from abeera .....hareem01.....and all others that because its very confusing....
i have a doubt...look ....if a well educated reaosanble man looks ....talks and then proposes the good and reasonable woman for marriage and then parents do all that on both sides...still this will be sin.....
infact...i am not talking about the "cheap" kinds of mohabats of Star Plus and bolly-wood block-busters....
just in a reasonable way...heart attracts the good and beautiful thing...no doubt about that...and if you want it in a respectable and legal bond of marriage ...then is this still a sin ????
in this age...how can you avoid that..we go to colleges and universities...almost all co-ed...move in offices ...where women and men work toghether...if someone ...with full respect and dignity...likes other and proposes other to be in a respectful and long lasting bond of family.......... As choti bahna Dushwari did...then still it is considered as sin....i am very much confused about that .....have mud bodies no attraction for each other...can we put locks on the hearts....are we all not want to be with the respectable...well behaved...decent...good-looking....educated gul/guy so that rest of our life will be a good and peaceful ....can we suppress our emotions...usually in this age of nudity and nakedness...so if someone wants to be in marriage bond of his and her "pasand" ...is this still a
sin....
if yes then what is the hadees which says this.....“There is nothing better for two who love each other than marriage.” (Sahih Al-Jami`, 5200)
now ...can anybody tell me from "where" this love will develope......!!!!!!!!!!
i am very much confused .....