Re: What Islam Teachs Us Abt Love ?
The link in your post doesn't work dawa_i_dil, however, I clicked on the link in the post above and found this old post of mine
[QUOTE]
I am assuming you are talking about having pre-marital love affairs with girls. Well, the thing is being a good muslim you should neither be looking at na-mehram girls unnecessarily much less talking to them a lot, so falling in love is quite difficult (if not unimaginable).
Once you are of marrying age, and are seriously looking to find a girl to get married, then you can use any of the permitted sharaye'e methods to find a spouse; including through family, friends, net-working events, masjid etc.
Masla hal?
[/QUOTE]
Whenever I (or someone) digs up an old post from me, it always strikes me as fascinating how I had constructed my thoughts, and how little, if anything, I will change, if I had to post the same thing again. As far as Islam and falling in love discussion is concerned, my views are still exactly the same to someone who wants to adhere to Islamic rulings. If someone wants to do mann-marzi, then of course they are free to do whatever their heart desires.