…to give to those who you would like to help, to motivate them in getting a control over their lives?
do you listento people more and talk less or do you give them advice and enable them to see that all is not lost?
Re: what is your sincerely given bag of tools?
Mixture of things...
Important things are probably the realization of the fact that person ought to have self belief, self control, cognitive logical thinking and far sightedness in any decision taken.