What is with all the girls - Part 4

[TLK]

Why are they so demanding and judgmental all the times.

They demand men to be more sensitive, yet they are more brutal with their words.

They seem to be more jealous than guys can ever be.

Now this could be my perspective but over the period of time I failed to see much difference from a girl to girl.

Is that something which is built into their personalities or these are acquired characteristics that they learn from their fellow females.

Are these their weaknesses or do they think that they are their strengths.

Ooooffff … so many questions, so little time to get the answers

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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Women are more sensitive than men. Depends on what their opinion is about themselves. If they consider themselves as 10 and behave as such than yes, but not to an extent to loose their confidence. Others take it personally and over react.

For a shareef and naik person like yourself. Don't pay attention to what women say, always look at their action.

[zobia]

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thnx chachu for setting such generalization!

[teggy]

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ur "LAUGH" is hard to read :CareBear:

[zobia]

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^ u got it right, that is a whole point

[TLK]

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For a shareef and naik person like yourself. Don't pay attention to what women say, always look at their action.

So you wnat me to pay attention to what men say, instead.

or do you want me to look at women's action

Now that does not sound too naik to me :D

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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talk to men while paying attention to women action.

[TLK]

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talk to men while paying attention to women action.

Ahaa, that is what I use to do at a bus stop in Karachi :D

[TLK]

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thnx chachu for setting such generalization!

its not setting genralization Zobia, its my perspective. Tell me that its not right

[X2]

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i will address the demanding part later but judgemental part is one that baffles me. I mean in interpersonal relationships u dont see men being so judgemental. The proof of that is desi gatherings, you will not see guys sitting around bytching about their siblings, parents, inlaws. I am generally speaking of desi phenomenon here, although I do think parellels are found in other cultures.

I see less of that in professional women, and more in the stay at home older aunties, even the educated younger stay at home moms are generally free from
that.

Maybe in old days with less things to do and the social life revilving around family, neighbours and friends and their comings and goings, and with education being minimal, there were just not many topics to discuss and then it just became part of the culture.

Hopefully our modern, educated, accomplished women would end this as they have a lot more to talk about.

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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Ahaa, that is what I use to do at a bus stop in Karachi :D

deekh magar pyar se :)

[zobia]

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@TLK

its not setting genralization Zobia, its my perspective. Tell me that its not right

Now this could be my perspective but over the period of time I failed to see much difference from a girl to girl.

what kinda difference you wants to see?

we are human, like you. DATS IT!

ps. pata nahi app kia explore kerna chatay hoo

[zobia]

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Women are more sensitive than men. Depends on what their opinion is about themselves. If they consider themselves as 10 and behave as such than yes, but not to an extent to loose their confidence. Others take it personally and over react.

For a shareef and naik person like yourself. Don't pay attention to what women say, always look at their action.

so where you find them more sensitive than men?

[TLK]

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i will address the demanding part later but judgemental part is one that baffles me. I mean in interpersonal relationships u dont see men being so judgemental. The proof of that is desi gatherings, you will not see guys sitting around bytching about their siblings, parents, inlaws. I am generally speaking of desi phenomenon here, although I do think parellels are found in other cultures.

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You probaly heard of this also

Small minds discuss people
average minds discuss events
the wise discuss ideas
and genious act in silence

are you saying that females, specially from our culture, mainly belongs to first cateogary :D

[Man_with_a_Plan]

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so where you find them more sensitive than men?

Women are more sensitive on how they approach their lives. They constatly think about what to wear, drink, eat and do in their lives, future. The first time a girl thinks about her marriage and future husband is 7. I may be wrong, some think about it a little be younger.

They are sensitive to what people say, think and consider of them. them=other women. i believe women are more competitive than men. if all of them unite, they will take over the world within an hour.

[X2]

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You probaly heard of this also

Small minds discuss people average minds discuss events the wise discuss ideas and genious act in silence

are you saying that females, specially from our culture, mainly belongs to first cateogary :D

if u believe in that saying. however if you were to translate the small minds as ppl who are less exposed, and have less opportunities to learn, develop interests etc etc then it can be true. I will not say that I would equate it to be opposite of wise. it seems to be more of a habit or a social norm.

[x8-zid]

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Why are they so demanding and judgmental all the times.

They demand men to be more sensitive, yet they are more brutal with their words.

They seem to be more jealous than guys can ever be.

Now this could be my perspective but over the period of time I failed to see much difference from a girl to girl.

Is that something which is built into their personalities or these are acquired characteristics that they learn from their fellow females.

Are these their weaknesses or do they think that they are their strengths.

Ooooffff … so many questions, so little time to get the answers

Very interesting.
yea, judgemental sometimes , to certify ones ownself has fully understood,

sensitive , more than men , mostly, that's why they use such words ,

jealous - cannot say , may get jealous over nothing , or may never get jealous

not in built , neither learn from their fellow females ,
just react to as the situation is

can be both weakness and strength

not- many , plenty of time to answer :)

[x8-zid]

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Women are more sensitive on how they approach their lives. They constatly think about what to wear, drink, eat and do in their lives, future.** The first time a girl thinks about her marriage and future husband is 7. I may be wrong, some think about it a little be younger. ** They are sensitive to what people say, think and consider of them. them=other women. i believe women are more competitive than men. if all of them unite, they will take over the world within an hour.

who told you that ?

[zobia]

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@Man_with_a_Plan

Women are more sensitive on how the approach their lives. They constatly think about what to wear, drink, eat and do in their lives, future. The first time a girl thinks about her marriage and future husband is 7. I may be wrong, some think about it a little be younger.

They are sensitive to what people say, think and consider of them. them=other women. i believe women are more competitive than men. if all of them unite, they will take over the world within an hour.

(cant really say, cuz i had chicken pox and then swollen for a month when i was seven, so my whole year was disturbed. sara time teacher ke mar na khanay say buchnay k plan banatay banatay mera to guzra tha )

but i cant say about otherz

they want men to rule. (iff they are not feminist or lalchi )

p.s. btw how come you know all this

[teggy]

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like i always say 'Life's a b****, depending on how u treat her'