what is this insecurity among women?? I have seen it in pakistani/oriental/white women.
Why they all take male dominance joke/talk so seriously.
I mean you tell that to guy, that a girl want him to be obedient. I mean all other guys would just laugh. unlike girls who actually comes in flocks , to attack.
yeah what is it??
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hmmm
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So knockout artist, do you also want an obedient wife? :p
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dude I want me wife to be honest.
If you want to get down to it then.
I am muslim only job my wife would have to do is have my babies and comfort me(comfort is not only S but tons of other things)
She has all the rights to say no to cooking or cleaning. Every time she cooks for me she will make me oblige to her.
Any ways thread is about women explaing them self.
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its because in past wives have been treated like slaves..and husbands as masters.
I find male dominance jokes/talk very offensive.
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what is this insecurity among women?? I have seen it in pakistani/oriental/white women. Why they all take male dominance joke/talk so seriously.
I mean you tell that to guy, that a girl want him to be obedient. I mean all other guys would just laugh. unlike girls who actually comes in flocks , to attack.
yeah what is it??
there is an equall number of guys defending for an equall balance
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yup thats our sole purpose making babies and comforting over grown babies.
Wow – you’re a gem!
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^I said thats the bottom line!!!
if she doesn't do that then you reconsider marriage with her.
so to you:
she don't do any thing at home.
She is not willing to have babies.
She doesn't care about me.
And again why do i need her in the house???? oh I see your point Munnyia for "S"
, well that we could get that any where.
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Um he didn’t say he wants a servant to tend to all his physical needs, house keeping or cooking etc or to be a slave to his parents, like a few characters here want…he wants someone to start a family with, and friendship/support. Isnt the latter especially, an important part of marriage?
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KA, the insecurity comes from past history. Women have brains that are quite as capable as those of men. They also have needs and feelings. Historically, women were always treated as property or as slaves...and when things improved their lot, it still did not measure up to the men in areas like equal pay for equal work etc.
So when a man says that he wants a wife to "see to his needs and his comfort" and to stay home and raise the kids, it sounds like more of the same, kwim?
I am SO happy to stay home and raise the boyz and take care of home things. Its what I want and what my hubby wants for our family. Yet, we are in equal partnership, we both have our "jobs" to do, we have mutual respect for each other and each other's feelings (well most of the time lol). Anyway, the point is that we each view it as a partnership of equals rather than a master/subservient relationship.
If you take that approach, you will do SO much better. Phrasing things the way you did makes it sound like you want a mommy-wifey to cater to your every need and heck with hers. Us ladies are people too ya know!
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cose bicharey men can’t handle a task that requires multi tasking and maharat.. they can only see in 1 dimension at a time.. unless they are trained chefs.. yaaarrr yea roti aakhir banti kaisay hai..
well yea its just not their baeen haath ka kaam…
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interesting…
humaarey paas aqal hai…n we take serious matters seriously…
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women generally are obidient in a happy (funktional) marriage
part of the course re-emphasises natural male dominance
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stop opening these stupid threads in General.
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Respect for each other brings Security and Obedience. :)
well staying single is much better :))
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Whaaaaat? Do your kind of come of the assembly line or something? 
