Re: What is the trick to control husband..
Its so unwomanlike of you to say that..
women aren’t supposed to say such stuff here…
Here is a standard reply to your post (if you were a guy saying it ) 
Why only the wife has to do the jaan and pyaar stuff?? isn’t he the one who married at teh first place?? shouldn’t he do it in the first place? and whats this about his ammi jaan and abbu jaan…did they descend from the heavens?? are they angels?? why not he first do this stuff to the paretns of the wife..he married her and those are HIS parents…he should be the one taking her of them…she is not their servant… this is just pure double standard sexist attitude…blah blah blah
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P.S.. On a serious note…what you have said…even if wife shows her honest and positive intention of doing those things…they are enough to ‘control’ him :k:…even if she doesn’t achieve those..
I hope you can keep this attitude untill later and not bogged down by the ‘negative advices’ that are dished out a lot here:k: