I knw this is something which may seem lyk a basic, common question mushy mushy but id really lyk 2 knw and would love to find out what ppl on GS think of this? Their feelings thoughts? Examples? most welcome.
Has love just become a compromise? Do we have to work at it everyday? Love at first site?
Does Love mostly happen after? Is it love or compromise that takes you right to the end?
Is Lust more common than Love? When du realise it wasnt love?
Id think ud have to feel for and care for that person- which wud be imprtant?
Is it a powerful force emotion? Someyimes were just insecure right? and just for that security are always in need?
I think you have to love yourself and be content with urself before you can love someone right? Does it then become a burden?
Does being loved make you happy? What if its not both ways? one sided?
Please share ur thoughts?
Do you even believe in love?
ive just put random things–plz make sense as much as you can.
For me, love is very complex emotion, its a combination of physical and spiritual love ... and it can make u do the weirdest things!!!
I dont believe in 'Love at first sight' ... i take that as infatutation .. its very limited .. once you get bored of the person, that will be the end of that physical love... u need spiritual love to keep the relationship ...
True love, at least to me, builds over time ... over many years ...
Perfect Example :
The love between a married couple that have been 40+ years will be alot more intense than say a couple married for 5 years or 10 years ...
Loving someone should never become a burden, cuz if your feeling it as a burden, then its not true love ... do u take the love for ur parents, ur siblings as a burden?
I do believe you need to be content with urself to an extent ... but u dont have to 100% happy with urself to love. i dont think any human being is 100% happy with themselves, and if they are, i just consider it as arrogance!
Love is a true emotion and i believe in it immensly ... just trying to find the right person is the tricky part ;)