what is the definition of Ahl ul Bayt

Surdar Asif Please go through the full version of same hadith you quoted above

Yazid b. Hayyan reported, I went along with Husain b. Sabra and 'Umar b. Muslim to Zaid b. Arqam and, as we sat by his side, Husain said to him: Zaid. you have been able to acquire a great virtue that you saw Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) listened to his talk, fought by his side in (different) battles, offered prayer behind me. Zaid, you have in fact earned a great virtue. Zaid, narrate to us what you heard from Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him). He said: I have grown old and have almost spent my age and I have forgotten some of the things which I remembered in connection with Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him), so accept whatever I narrate to you, and which I do not narrate do not compel me to do that. He then said: One day Allah's Messenger (may peace be upon him) stood up to deliver sermon at a watering place known as Khumm situated between Mecca and Medina. He praised Allah, extolled Him and delivered the sermon and. exhorted (us) and said: Now to our purpose. O people, I am a human being. I am about to receive a messenger (the angel of death) from my Lord and I, in response to Allah's call, (would bid good-bye to you), but I am leaving among you two weighty things: the one being the Book of Allah in which there is right guidance and light, so hold fast to the Book of Allah and adhere to it. He exhorted (us) (to hold fast) to the Book of Allah and then said: The second are the members of my household I remind you (of your duties) to the members of my family. He (Husain) said to Zaid: Who are the members of his household? Aren't his wives the members of his family? Thereupon he said: *His wives are the members of his family *(but here) the members of his family are those for whom acceptance of Zakat is forbidden. And he said: Who are they? Thereupon he said: 'Ali and the offspring of 'Ali, 'Aqil and the offspring of 'Aqil and the offspring of Ja'far and the offspring of 'Abbas. Husain said: These are those for whom the acceptance of Zakat is forbidden. Zaid said: Yes.

Sahih Muslim Book:31 Number:5920

Read the highlighted part and Hz. Zaid b. Arqam (ra) clearly states that the wives are part of Prophet's family.

Do you seriously mean to say that Hz. Fatimah (ra) is not from Ahle-Bayt of Hz. Ali (ra)??!!

Shias don't take wife to be part of man's family - strange the whole world takes wife/wives to be part of man's family.

On Humorous Side

Umar (Sunni) invites his good friend Hussein (a Shia) and his family (ahlel bayt) to have Iftar with them.

Hussein arrives at Umar's place with his children and parents in tow.

Umar seeing that Hussien's wife was missing asked concernedly if she was ok.

Hussein retorted: But the invitation was for only me and my family.

Umar : Yes so why didn't she come?

Hussein: My wife ain't part of my family. So she stays home!!!

That's right I think Hz. Bilal (ra) was among this group (honorary members)