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why? do I sound like a budda?
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Originally Posted by Chameli420
Well if u dont have parents who are thinking about ur marriage cuz they want u to stay single untill ur 5 yrs younger bro wants to settle down and get married and they use u for that purpose, yaani ke they think u control him better and therefore its best for u to stay single and live with them untill he is married. In such a scenario, the girl is allowed to find her hubby herself as she doesnt have any other adults who will or can help her in that.
Remember that islam is flexible in different situations and that it is in an ideal scenraio that a girl can wait till her walis introduce her to a good match. If the walis are not even close to understanding islam, there is no use of handing over ur life to them!!!
the wali concept is ony shafi interpretation.......go for it....only if u get found out...u'll surely get married off in haste to any bhudda thurki that comes yr parents way......cud get quite ironic......so think it through
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oi…lussi…y r u always so negative? Kuch to justice hum larkio per…huh?
try it…
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oi…lussi…y r u always so negative? Kuch to justice do hum larkio per…huh?
try it…
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it sounds like :love:
go for it girl.
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yeah thats what I think so too.
I asked him to come and visit last week even though I knew that he couldnt afford it right now and the next I knew that he was on his way the next day;)
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grab him with both hands. and dont let go :)
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awwww .. such a cute situation to be in..
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hihihi..yeah:)
he is coming again soon. I just asked him to come and he booked his flight when we hang up the phone..hihihihi
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^ aww that's sweet...
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aik aur gi kam say 
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one of my close friend, happened to fall in this kind of this.
He was in middle east, met one girl over the net back home, chats, phones, and they were in love. :) next time he went to Pakistan. he introduced her to parents. ... and
Thaw! "yeh shadi nahi ho sakti" they didnt like the girl and her family.
but girls her family will not let it go like that, they got them married without the knowledge of Guys family. hoping that she will go with the guy to middle east. and they will tell this from there to his family. (it was stupid on girls family part i think to get marry their daughter like this)
now here things go funny and wrong. guy was in stress cause of this, has bashing from own family and asked him to stay in Pak cause you go there and do this kind of stuff.
this friend of mine was living two lives, one at his home and one with his newly wedded wife in same city. when the sweet rosy period over, he went to buy ticket back to middle east. ................ and informed by travel agent, sir your visa has expired!! reason can be his honey moon stuff or stress. he forgot the expiry date.
things have now changed, not so rosy, guy have to stay in Pak, so have to tell parents.
they said you have leave the girl or leave them.!
his and her wife hasty decision made life un promising for both.
yesterday i got the news they have both decided to divorce.
and this story ended.
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Sad story. One should remember to be reasonable and not just let the emotions decide.
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i've yet to see parents that rigid..
gosh.. its thier life let them be.
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stupidity reigns once again in a Paki household. May God have mercy on these idiots.
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wait..u tell em u guys shouldnt talk n u know the reason why he sint calling then why get mad? maybe he thinks the same way as u do..