Re: What is Pakistani Shadi Experience really like?
A lot of it was the two of us sitting down and talking out issues. A lot of it was independence with regards to schedule, etc. and more recently our fights have been over money (we are saving for a house…don’t ask. lol)
We didn’t really talk about hygiene or intimacy expectations. When you’re living together, not everything has to be explicitly communicated. These kind of things just happen and you fall into a routine. I’m not totally sure what you mean by “Limitations and Liberties on Social Dialogue”
@parisbynight, you’re absolutely right about the ego. It was often my friends vs. your friends, and my family vs. your family. Alhamdolillah we have now learned to balance our expectations and compromise on a lot of things that previously seemed oh-so-important.