Re: what is one thing that makes you feel: selfish people...
makes absolute sense, Nemo. it does depend on the need/s. and eventually, they know that one would always be there for them for help, at the end, is a comforting reward. hopefully, that includes some self-realization on their part.
thanks,
Yes I fully agree but at times, you also have to realise that the need will be really urgent. So i guess it kind of depends on the need too. Like if it's something really really urgent and they really need help, then give them a chance so they realise their mistake and help them** at end** (if no one else helps them). But if it is something which is not urgent and is just useless, just ignore it then and tell them why you are doing what you are doing.