For a very long time, I imagined wedding to be a good thing. you get to live with your husband, man you’ve loved ( in case of love marriage) otherwise it can be rough too.. with the in laws and stuff.. its not your own home. but never like a jail.
so my recent obversation and things ive heard doesn’t support this ..life is toughter, your husband wants you to spend time with ur parent while husband is never home. he doesn’t take her out,she is always home …not talking much, there is no bond.. no sharing stuff and talking about feelings.
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
For a very long time, I imagined wedding to be a good thing. you get to live with your husband, man you've loved ( in case of love marriage) otherwise it can be rough too.. with the in laws and stuff.. its not your own home. but never like a jail.
so my recent obversation and things ive heard doesn't support this ..life is toughter, your husband wants you to spend time with ur parent while husband is never home. he doesn't take her out,she is always home ...not talking much, there is no bond.. no sharing stuff and talking about feelings.
is this true? can anyone give their version??
Thats what my ex-bf wanted me to do if we were to get married to take care of his parents and sit at home..... No, there are actually genuine men out there who will treat you with love, respect, and give you the world. Marriage is a give and take type of deal between two partners :) ... If the relationship has the follow ingrediants: trust, romance, understanding, excitement, listening, patience, overcoming, and commitment then you are good to go :)
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
For a very long time, I imagined wedding to be a good thing. you get to live with your husband, man you've loved ( in case of love marriage) otherwise it can be rough too.. with the in laws and stuff.. its not your own home. but never like a jail.
so my recent obversation and things ive heard doesn't support this ..life is toughter, your husband wants you to spend time with ur parent while husband is never home. he doesn't take her out,she is always home ...not talking much, there is no bond.. no sharing stuff and talking about feelings.
is this true? can anyone give their version??
It's lots of compromises. My husband doesn't care if I spend much time with his family. We all live together. I am 99% of the time in my room doing my stuff. They know by now that this is how my personality is. I am a loner and not interested at all in gossiping and regular chit-chat. Also, even if it's your home and your inlaws live with you, it's their house. The reason it is like that for me is because I hate being told what to do and how to do something. So I gave away all the control willingly. I would rather not argue over silly things. Marriage is definitely overrated.
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
It's lots of compromises. My husband doesn't care if I spend much time with his family. We all live together. I am 99% of the time in my room doing my stuff. They know by now that this is how my personality is. I am a loner and not interested at all in gossiping and regular chit-chat. Also, even if it's your home and your inlaws live with you, it's their house. The reason it is like that for me is because I hate being told what to do and how to do it. So I gave away all the control willingly. I would rather not argue over silly things. Marriage is definitely overrated.
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
I wrote very clearly, what I enjoy.
The shackles are kind of making it hard, i have to be answerable for each and everything that I do or don't do. Also i am expected to know what she wants/feels etc etc, how am i supposed to know if she don't tell me?
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
marriage can be good if you picked the right person. its not that hard to pick the right-ish person. just dont be desperate, dont have any other agendas, like shopping for a good pair of jeans.
Re: What is married life like..? without any sugar coating.
marriage can be good if you picked the right person. its not that hard to pick the right-ish person. just dont be desperate, dont have any other agendas, like shopping for a good pair of jeans.
My fiance and I are going clothes shopping next weekend.... Should I be scared?