what is love?

**A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8
year-olds, “What does love mean?”

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have
imagined. See what you think:**

“When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her
toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got
arthritis too. That’s love.”

Rebecca- age 8

“When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

Billy - age 4

“Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and
they go out and smell each other.”

Karl - age 5

“Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French
fries without making them give you any of theirs.”

Chrissy - age 6

“Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.”

Terri - age 4

“Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip
before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”

Danny - age 7

“Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing,
you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss”

Emily - age 8

“Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening
presents and listen.”

Bobby - age 7

“If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who
you hate,”

Nikka - age 6

“Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it
everyday.”

Noelle - age 7

“Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still
friends even after they know each other so well.”

Tommy - age 6

“During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at
all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.
He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.”

Cindy - age 8

“My mommy loves me more than anybody .
You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.”

Clare - age 6

“Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.”

Elaine-age 5

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is
handsomer than Robert Redford.”
Chris - age 7

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all
day."

Mary Ann - age 4

I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes
and has to go out and buy new ones."

Lauren - age 4

“When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars
come out of you.” (what an image)

Karen - age 7

“Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s
gross.”

Mark - age 6 :rotfl:

“You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean
it, you should say it a lot. People forget.”

Jessica - age 8

And the final one – Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a
contest he was asked to judge.

The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an
elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy
said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry” :teary3:

that was one of the sweetest things i have ever read :flower1:

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here’s some more:

How can you tell if two adults eating dinner at a restaurant are in Love?

“Just see if the man picks up the check. That’s how you can tell if he’s in love.” – Bobby, age 9

“Lovers will just be staring at each other and their food will get cold… Other people care more about the food.” – Bart, age 9

“Romantic adults usually are all dressed up, so if they are just wearing jeans it might mean they used to go out or they just broke up.” --Sarah, age 9

“See if the man has lipstick on his face.” – Sandra, age 7

“It’s love if they order one of those desserts that are on fire. They like to order those because it’s just like how their hearts are — on fire.” – Christine, age 9

What most people are thinking when they say “I Love You”

“The person is thinking: Yeah, I really do love him. But I hope he showers at least once a day.” – Michelle, age 9

“Some lovers might be real nervous, so they are glad that they finally got it out and said it and now they can go eat.” – Dick, age 7

On what falling in love is like

“Like an avalanche where you have to run for your life.” – John, age 9

“If falling in love is anything like learning how to spell, I don’t want to do it. It takes too long.” – Glenn, age 7 :rotfl:

On the role of beauty and handsomeness in love

“If you want to be loved by somebody who isn’t already in your family, it doesn’t hurt to be beautiful.” – Anita C., age 8

“It isn’t always just how you look. Look at me. I’m handsome like anything and I haven’t got anybody to marry me yet.” – Brian, age 7 :rotfl: :rotfl:

“Beauty is skin deep. But how rich you are can last a long time.” – Christine, age 9 :dhimpak:

How do people in love typically behave?

“Mooshy … like puppy dogs … except puppy dogs don’t wag their tails nearly as much.” – Arnold, age 10

“When a person gets kissed for the first time, they fall down and they don’t get up for at least an hour.” – Wendy, age 8

“All of a sudden, the people get movies fever so they can sit together in the dark.” – Sherm, age 8

heheheheheheh

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love is when a husband says ........ my dear wife chalo shopping par chalay......

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Love is when you dont want to go to sleep coz..........................., dang i forgot the rest.

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flu? cold? coughing?

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Wow, that's cute. Those are some insightful kids. They could teach most adults a thing or two.

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shireen :)

saima, i know right? it's amazing the way they look at things :) and what a better way of looking at love without all the fantasies of fairy tales

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lolz, yea sure. I have started to believe that.

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the toenails one--- soo cute
hehe movie fever so true

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:rotfl:Aww those r so cute! Thanks for sharing 714…i remember when i was working with kids ages 4+ and they knew about my fiance, (like they saw me on the phone with him) they wud say stuff like that too :halo: They r so intelligent and silly at the same time…i think this one is my favourite:

** “When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”

 Billy - age 4

:blush:
**

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Shireeennn.. :love:

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i think i fell out of a love now.... taubaaa... :p

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honestly, i loved what they said…b/c they look at things like that with the most innocent of eyes…there is no malice, no negative intent…and what they say is true…it’s little things like that that show that people are truly in love b/c of their actions towards eachother :slight_smile:

kashmiri, i love little kids :slight_smile:

nia :grumpy:

asim :slight_smile:

music & decent :stuck_out_tongue:

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huh...love is just a crap...trust me

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oh barbie, in many ways yes...

but did you read the thread? it's a little different here :)

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......i just hate this word " LOVE" .....

sorry i dint read your thread....

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barbie dear...that i can understand :)

the thread is about what little kids think of the emotion...and not every thought is about romantic love (though most of it is)...there is a bit of parental love as well

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kiddish love or parental love...i just hate " love" ......

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going by some of the quotes stated above, i highly doubt kids came up with such stuff to say.. just doesnt seem possible....

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^ i agree.