What is it with desis and indirectness?

Re: What is it with desis and indirectness?

I don't get bothered that all those aunties and uncles blab in front of my parents, I get bothered that my parents actually get effected by it. I have so many cousins that moved to Canada and I never received a call from them. Then when my parents came and we were visiting Toronto one cousin goes, "mere hotay huay aap hotel mein kaise reh saktay hain". It just burned me up.