What is he trying to do now.. What does all this mean?

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Re: What is he trying to do now.. What does all this mean?

@Paheli00

Umm…so the guy told you he LIED to you…and you told him you didn’t mind it?! So you basically told him that you have no problem with him lying to you and disrespecting you?

None of us can tell you what made him write back or what he’s trying to do. But he has already lied to you once about something big. What on earth makes you think he won’t lie to you again? If you have any self-respect, then you will ignore him 100%.

However, if you don’t mind chit-chatting with a guy who lied to you and still seems to be making up stories (he’s too busy to chat with you on FB but e-mail is ok?! )…then by all means continue responding to his e-mails.

No, I didn’t exactly give him impression that it was all okay he telling lies to me, but at the same time, i didn’t want to bombard him with any questions like, why, how, what, etc.. So, i just gave him an impression like let it be whatever it was, & now i wasn’t anymore interested to keep in touch with him..

@redvelvet

Who knows why he resumed contact? Maybe he was shopping around for other girls during that time. He lied to you, admitted and then apologized to you, but now he’s ignoring your wish to not talk to him …which is disrespectful…he didn’t want to talk about it or make the effort to convince you otherwise…he just ignored it and that reflects disrespect and lack of maturity. Maybe you’re asking us why he resumed contact with you because you want to hear that he missed you, that he thinks you’re special, and that maybe there’s some significance in his return. I don’t have a good feeling about this…I think you should move on. And if that’s something you can’t do…then certainly lower your expectations considerably should you choose to keep in touch.

Yes, you are right. I should move on & I am. Probably you are right that he was shopping around for other girls, & so, he did tell such a big lie then, & so he would definitely keep on telling even bigger lies later on as well.