We all are grown up in family and each family has some issues.
I and my husband have been together for a few years now, i have a 9 month old and me and my husband have never been quite gud in the relationship we often have fights.
He has some issues from me so do i these issues r not getting solved.
Now after hearing few things from him such like he got married to me because i forced him to, if his child gets hurt so he is going to hit me and etc now i have had enough i cant take this anymore. But then i think of my son getting seprate would affect his life which i dont want to and i think its being affected now slso by seing our fights.
I need advise what should i do?
How should i deal with him?
He never understands me and doesnt ever wants to talk to me.
To include as being from pakistan and narrow minded background my family wont appreciate me being seprated to him.
Where do you live (country)? Is this the guy that is flirty with your sister?
Will your family appreciate your child growing up into an abusive or lecherous husband or having self esteem issues or trust issues and going through life as someone else shadow?
Re: what is better for a child?
Depends on what the arguments are about and whether you can review the situation, and maybe compromise?
Also, try not to think about what other people will say. This is because after everything is said and done, it will be you and your son who will suffer the consequences, and not all those other people who always have something to say.
Re: what is better for a child?
^^ exactly, what are issues, can you both work on mutual respect and some mutual compromise?
Do you have a plan of what you will do if you separate from your husband. How will you support yourself, your son, and take care of your home?
I don't know your exact situation, so I don't have an answer for your question.
Re: what is better for a child?
you will need to provide a lot more information for anyone to be able to advise you.....
what is better for a child?
I live in dubai. Unfortunately yes he is the same guy
Re: what is better for a child?
I am sorry to know you have to go through this.
I am not sure what issues you guys exactly have or what you might have discussed on these forums before,but just a suggestion...child/ren growing up in homes where the parents do not get along/fight/scream/are abusive in any way/do not respect each other are more damaged than those whose parents have separated/divorced after trying everything.This might be huge generalization but I just trying to convey a point.
Hope things get sorted out for you ...!