What if your wedding is simple??

[PunjabiRose]

Re: What if your wedding is simple??

@NomiCA

I was just thinking the other day..

what if you end up having a very very very simple wedding…by that i mean

only the two immediate family members..lets say 30-40 people..
Only simple clothes [normal party wear..nothing designer or bridal kaam wala jora]
No big hall booked
No grand feast
No jewellery transfers
No Suits/Joras transfers
No Jahaiz
No Bari/Vari
No movie/professional photography

basically its just like anyother family get together…

1.)What will be the extent of emotional and psychologicala trauma that you will face??
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Put yourself** into that position…what will be your feelings??

and

**2.)what if all the money that was to be spent for the things i mentioned, is given to the couple so that they can begin their new life??

Please answer both questions..thank you
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1.) absolutely NO emotional/psychological trauma whatsover… I would instead feel relief!!!

… but I would definitely want pictures and video of my event… not matter how simple it is. Memories are forever and something that can be shown to children and then grandchildren… passed down from one generation to another.

And rather than 2 immediate family members.. i would still want to give the invitation out to the whole family since they are FAMILY… and what is a shaadi without family?? Plus … since all of my relatives live in other countries and extremely far from me… im sure the guest list would still remain minimal. But I would not sacrifice the chance of a cousin being able to attend my wedding along with her/his parents.

I would also want my closest and dearest friends to attend… like 6??? 10 max.

I would be completely content and satisfied if the shaadi was done as how you outlined with the few adjustments I made.

2. I think that is the way it should be…and it would extremely generous and amazing of the parents to give the money to us. What my parents give me - I would put it towards our house and put the rest in savings…