Re: What if your wedding is simple??
Ideally, that what it is supposed to be like if you follow the traditional reeti rivaaj. however the matter of Jahaiz and Hak Merr would still be included. in this day and age because humans have a desire to outdo the next person, its highly impossible. BUT, if someone was to do that then i would admire them. it just goes to show that in this competitive day and age, you can have a simplistic wedding.
If the money was to be given to the couple so they can start a new life - again it depends on their mentality. if i was the groom and my parents wer proper kanjoos and did that and said “putthar heres 10k which we didnt dspend on the wedding”, id be like “YEAH! im gonna have a party of my own”. but you can get the SHAREEF LATIF who will say thanks and invest or save etc etc. so theres pros and cons.