What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

Certainly not. Having an education might make it less likely but certainly wouldn’t eliminate it.

1) It will surely hit their ego, and let them know that the woman isn't afraid and CAN fight back
2) Agree to hit him where it hurts
3) Secure my financial well being, whatever it takes :)
4) Restraining order will help me do that :)

Allah na karay....someone is right ...you don't know unless you've been in the situation. Pray no one has to ever be in such a situation.

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

^ I agree Afro. I think Sara516 said it best!

Not at all. That’s one of the biggest misconceptions of an abuser, that they belong to a certain socioeconomic class.
This is just one example.
Hiram Monserrate - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

On December 4, 2009, Monserrate was sentenced to three years probation, 250 hours of community service, a $1000 fine, and one year of domestic abuse counseling. He sought to vacate the order of protection preventing him from contact with Giraldo. It was not vacated. The conviction was appealed.

And that’s all??

I’d like to see such sickos imprisoned for life!!
%between%

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

Part of the problem I think was that she refused to testify or something like that.
In any case, Im pretty sure this has had some impact on his career.

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

r we talking about sodomy?

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

If he slaps me, I think I would slap him back there and then........its my reflexes I wouldn't be able to control it...................but what happens after that I don't know

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

I would leave. It never stops after one slap. Someone slaps-hits you once, they will do it again GUARANTEED

I agree a slap for slap and there is no other option.

She was a pretty brave person. I admire her for that.

ALSO: I would leave the husband and destroy anything I had given him if he had abused me. I'm not married as I'm still 14, LOL. But I am a sassy, bold yet calm person so I can do whatever I want. :)

yup yup.. the situation matters.. :k: ..

SLAP BACK!!!!!!

because a stitch in time saves nine and if today you do not put things to a stop, they will continue and increase. slap back and you will always be respected!!!!

I am sure you can tell I am killing time :slight_smile:

Here is the tag cloud for this thread. For those who are curious what Tag cloud is, Tag cloud - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

click image to view large size

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

Why is my name there? :eek:

well words get mentioned in cloud depending on weight (# of times repeated). you most probably has done quite a lot buk buk in this thread :slight_smile:

I don't know what I would do either...

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

:omg:

Re: What if your husband (or wife) slaps you ?

I will make life so miserable for him, he will beg for mercy.

Example: Shave his eyebrow off when he's sleeping :p

Itni violent thread se, where barbieQ’s and other female posters fiendish plans came to light, mai behcara to door raha tha!

Edit- Read Mia’s post above too! :frowning:

Come on DC, yeh read kartay huay dard hoti hai tid may :eek: