we have a guy in our family who beats his wife and our whole khandan is on one side and that is on girl’s side. every one curses him , scolds him , try to make him understand that no good man would raise his hand on a woman.
similarly , i have a cousin who has been severely beaten up by her husband several times so much so that few days back her one eye was balck , swollen to the extent she couldn’t open and that mr beated her and went out to buy cigarette for himself.. her parents , siblings everyone tells her to leave him. they tell him ghalti ho gayi hai abb usko sudhar lo leave him but she doesn’t saying "how can I end my marriage like this ? " and just being that kind of wifey who accepts even jootas from her husband. that cousin of mine is beyond my understanding.
Let me guess, in both cases that you have mentioned here - The man must be an alcoholic, correct? Because I have noticed a trend that those Pakistanis who are found of liquor, also are habitual abusers of women. Am I right?