Re: what if your drop dead gorgeous wife…
Anyone old around you has to be taken as ugly, theek.
For the last part, yes. I see no reason why I would not be romantically pleased with someone who’s unpleasant to anyones eye. I didn’t say “we” there because I do not feel I have the right to call another individual or Muslim for that matter ugly. Irrelevant if they were born with defects or ended up defecting themselves in real life.
There was a girl in school who as you’d say was not so very pleasant to the eye. But once a batch of the school crew got to know her better, she was no longer the unpleasant looking one, instead became the center of attention in most cases.