What if you spouse ???

sweefs · March 14, 2007, 4:42pm

Re: What if you spouse ???

Thats silly IMO. You are thousands of miles away and you want her to ask for your blessing to go see her own parents who are 5 minutes away from her? If you want to be THAT involved in her life, where she goes, what she does, how she dresses then get your butt back over there and act like the “daddy” you’re trying to be. She’s your WIFE man, not your child. It seems to me that you want to be her daddy or her owner and not her “partner in life”. If thats what you want then you should get a pet. Sorry to sound harsh but your way of thinking makes me angry and I’m sure it must annoy the heck out of her whether she admits to it or not.

and ps, i just dont get how you think that by asking your permission to go see her parents shows “love” or respect? Sorry, it shows fear of you. A very sad thing to base a marriage on.

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