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Maybe because she wants to be closer to you as a person, rather than as a sexual being.
Or maybe she's just getting tired of you.
And the name is not Peary.
(peary...shakes head...what is GS coming to?)
^:omg:@ Peary
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My bad pyari. :)
We want to know every thing don't we? She was the one who introduce most advance tech. in intimacy.
She loved talking in sensual way, now all of a sudden she backing off??
Its not easy for guy to go into this next phase of relation where she could have guy's attention
toward her body and guys is not supposed to react.
She is an year or two older then the guy too.
May be she is over her prime?
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the most advanced WHAT ?
Maybe she is over her prime?
Wha…
omg, can someone please explain to this guy that if your wife decides she doesn’t want to shag it 5x each night, that its totally normal and fine to do it like maybe 3x every night?
I dont understand uzziel. I dont think there is a problem. Maybe you’re just too keen on jumping onto her, and you dont give her any space to mentally connect with you, and she’s just getting tired of it. I dont think its because she’s out of her prime. 
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conect to her ?? how.
We are already married how more could I connet to her?
She always drives the relation, I hope she has some ideas to fix this too.
connect like how? what do you mean?
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Like ... TALK TO HER.
How about you start by talking about your feelings that you've shared with us? I'm sure she'd like to hear about them too.
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No way!!
I am normally a shy person. Can't talk about all those things.
I can only talk that way, when she is there too with me.
Not like when she is acting all school teacher and I am begging for more.
I have ego/shame too. I aint talking.
But she should not do that. Its not fair.
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its in human nature that it can never bear extreme environments (abnormality). even if he/she is attracted to it for a while, it will always move back to normality no matter what. so balance in life is what the guy in question needed.
guy (in question) must recite Quran and understand the responsibilities of Humans. and learn to differentiate between humans and pigs.
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^:lajawab:…good ans. although i’d say differentiate between humans and cocks…i see them running around the hens like everyday in the farm 24/7:D…
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Ho ho ho, time for Majazi Khuda to enter this thread with his Angel cursing the wife who refuses the sex ruling … 
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Could ya please not disturb that dude 
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Uzziel, How long has this couple been married?
How long has she been acting non responsive?
That you can't give her a break? I hope you know what I am talking about? Ppl seems mature enogh here, I think. Are they?
Ok. I mean in physical terms. Suppose you are much affectionate, physically. And she need a break some time and you can't stop your self.
What can be done?
By no means, its a real situation. And suppose even if it was, by no means I am invlolved.
Eeew......chipku behavior is not attractive in anyone. Not in children....not among friends......not even in a spouse.
If a guy is "physically" attached to his wife to that extent........he needs to understand that his behavior has the potential to kill the physical intimacy in the relationship. His strong baby-like attachment can risk turning his wife OFF toward intimacy altogether. If she's turned off.........he won't enjoy himself either. It's a lose-lose situation.
A reasonable amount of distance is healthy and even necessary in all relationships. As the saying goes, "Absence makes the heart grow fonder."
Being in somebody's face all the time is a turn-off. Plus.....when you are always around someone.....it increases the chances for arguments to take place. Everyone needs breathing room. Give your wife the chance to **"miss you" **by give her the space she needs. This might even enhance the level of passion in the "physical" aspect of your relationship.
Plus........if the guy really and truly loves his wife.......he should be able to SEE that his behavior is frustrating her....and he shouldn't impose on her all the time. If he INSISTS UPON fulfilling his physical needs ALL the time.....AT THE EXPENSE.........of her EMOTIONAL needs......................then he doesn't truly love her. His love is rather "selfish" because he's only thinking, "ME ME ME ME ME ME" and ignoring her discomfort.
A "physical relationship" is not the ONLY component to a marriage. One has to go to work to earn money to meet financial needs. Household chores (cooking, cleaning, washing) need to be taken care of. Personal errands/goals need to be taken care of. If these other duties are not fulfilled..............it creates stress.........which will....in turn.......will eventually kill the intimacy.
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this reminded me of something i watched a while back…u can watch the whole thing if u like, but 2:30 onwards is what i’m referring to 
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Well, that M-khuda guy had me convinced.I wanted to use his ideas to my advantage, I brought that idea up with her. Thats how
long that discussion lasted for.
Me: “baby what does mijazy khuda means”
Her: “What the F-k are you talking about?”
Do I need to say I changed topic to weekend plans quickly.
Sajalna: 3 year now Mashallah, 2 year they met before getting married.
Why did you call me dick for?
Red: Its her fault she was there for him like mama all the time
now all of a sudden she want to talk? Do we not talk when we around other ppl.
Or when in mall or when driving. What with snuggling with no happy ending?
I think lately she is been watching too much romantic movies.
There is some thing going on here. I don’t know what though.
Please don’t call him pig or any names. Its husband and wife we are talking about
for cryin out loud.
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Please don't call him pig or any names?
First of all, we know you're talking about yourself, that's obvious. Secondly, I think this is all made up. He's looking for a rouse.
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Cheat on your wife with your hand. Things will get better, plus the thrill factor is a bonus.