Eeew…chipku behavior is not attractive in anyone. Not in children…not among friends…not even in a spouse.
If a guy is “physically” attached to his wife to that extent…he needs to understand that his behavior has the potential to kill the physical intimacy in the relationship. His strong baby-like attachment can risk turning his wife OFF toward intimacy altogether. If she’s turned off…he won’t enjoy himself either. It’s a lose-lose situation.
A reasonable amount of distance is healthy and even necessary in all relationships. As the saying goes, “Absence makes the heart grow fonder.”
Being in somebody’s face all the time is a turn-off. Plus…when you are always around someone…it increases the chances for arguments to take place. Everyone needs breathing room. Give your wife the chance to **“miss you” **by give her the space she needs. This might even enhance the level of passion in the “physical” aspect of your relationship.
Plus…if the guy really and truly loves his wife…he should be able to SEE that his behavior is frustrating her…and he shouldn’t impose on her all the time. If he INSISTS UPON fulfilling his physical needs ALL the time…AT THE EXPENSE…of her EMOTIONAL needs…then he doesn’t truly love her. His love is rather “selfish” because he’s only thinking, “ME ME ME ME ME ME” and ignoring her discomfort.
A “physical relationship” is not the ONLY component to a marriage. One has to go to work to earn money to meet financial needs. Household chores (cooking, cleaning, washing) need to be taken care of. Personal errands/goals need to be taken care of. If these other duties are not fulfilled…it creates stress…which will…in turn…will eventually kill the intimacy.