what if you found out that your spouse was married before he/she married you

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e x a c t l y. whatever you hide is the sin.

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I had to read the whole thread to understand what you’re talking about :mad:

I think in that case, I would be upset, but I will get over it eventually. The blow to the trust however, that would be big. I mean…if he hid that from me, what else could he be hiding? Or hasn’t told me? It would take a while for that trust to build up back to what it used to be eventually.

Also I would be grilling him a lot about his previous wife. Kaun thi woh. Kaisi shakal thi us ki. Did she cook better than me? Did she understand you better than me. Is that it! huh huh huh! Do you wish you were still married to her?! :mad: :bailan:

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and dont forget to add 'whenever he is sitting quietly, you would nag him that - mujhe pata he tum oosee manhoos ke baaray main soch rahay ho ge'

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Exactly!

Awww you think like a girl <3

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So you think so its not a definite :p

But he's divorced her!

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Soooo he was still married to her!

Who's to say what's possible in the future shrugs

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I would have trust issues.

there is nothing that can be done about it now is there?

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The story has a twist! :D

Your spouse has a child (or children) from previous marriage.

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and the child's name is the same as that of your first love, whom you parted ways with on a sad moonless night.

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And your drunk friend sang "Huzoor is qadar bhi na itraa ka chaiyay?"

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ROFLLLL.

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if ur saying married to someone while married to me? thats not possible. In this country its illegal. Though if he was married to someone before me. Then i would just forgive and forget and move on with our life

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MMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMMM so nice to see ya :bb:

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awww thank niksik, nice to see u as well hugz

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Some threads opens up on GS at very perfect timings :hehe:

Honestly, being indirectly affected by this situation I would say that a husband would only hide his previous marriage and a kid too only when they does not a valid justification to give to his new spouse for the divorce that happened. Divorce happens it’s not an out of world thing. So what is the issue in sharing the reasons of divorce with your future wife ? offcourse daal kuch kala hai ya phir daal poori ki poori kali hai that is why u r hiding your previous marriage.

It’s not that divorce men don’t re-marry if they don’t hide their previous marriage and I really don’t know how can one start such a important relationship based on cheating & such a big lie. Women here are saying that they would get over with it but I believe it’s not easy and it would definitely damage your marriage.

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OK!!! after reading the full thread I understood what Mr. OP is asking!!! :mad:

Yeaaaaa…I was confused toooooo!!!

Exactly!!! If the dude got married to me while he is married to her..that is when I will kick his marbles (coconuts, jingle bells, tennis balls, cricket balls, baseballs and what ever else u want to call it)…and then divorce him…but if it was a divorce that he decided to hide from me..then I would just get the explanation from him and then get over it after a while..now how long that “while” is am not sure :@:

OK!!! THAT was grosssssssss!!! I was first wondering what you were on about!!! You didn’t think it when Reha said she would kick his arse??? :pcg:

QUEER!!! :smack: :smilestar: