what if you found out that your spouse was married before he/she married you

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i know.. whats up with marbles? we gots coconuts, and yo boi got stuck with marbles :(

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Then he can stay married to her. I don't have to :@:

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Loved her as in past tense or loves her still?

I knew some guy was going to take offense. And then they say size doesn’t matter :rolleyes:

Well, why not be honest about it. Divorce isn’t the issue, dishonesty is.

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well maybe he had to marry her and then promised her that he wont tell anyone ... or some other dramatic crap beyond his silence ..

point is, is kicking him out of your life would be the only answer?

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Why, if he was doing such a noble act :rolleyes: why should he hide it?

Yes, such spouses should be kicked out.

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what if he lied about coconuts and later on you found out he's marbles? or is that another thread? hmm..

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That would be in Fashion and Beauty please :@:

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fashion part or beauty part ? :konfused:

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No one is saying kick him out. But a relationship is built on trust. And trust should not be convenient or selective. Would he expect his wife to be honest about her prior marriages? If he answers yes, then he must himself be honest about it.

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wait I'm confused, is the OP asking about before he married the current spouse or during his current marriage?

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Before getting married to current spouse. After main tu thudda parey ga....

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well lets do both cases. 2 different cases, in one husband still loves his bachpan ki mohabbat and in 2nd case he loveD her.

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You know...

If you want to help someone...you dont have to marry them.

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I'd stay with the dhokebaaz..

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most practical answer perhaps?

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And perhaps also the one men in this thread want to hear.

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OK so if I find out that my husband HAD been married before he married me and did divorce that lady before he married me but just didn't tell me about until AFTER we got married, I'd be a bit upset but would get over it.

Now if he marries someone WHILE being married to me, that's not acceptable; and finally if he was previously married and did NOT divorce that lady but went ahead and married me as well...I'd be looking for a sharp ginsu knife :@:

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yes that is the question ..

I clarified it cause I had to ask this question to both guys and gals and asking a guy that what if your wife is secretly married to another person (while she is also your wife) does not make sense in our culture as the secret marriage is not even recognized as legit marriage religiously.

That is why I am sepcifically talking about a past marriage that is over now.

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^^ Oh Ok so yeah if that were the case...I'd get over it in a bit. Probably nag him about being dishonest forever and ever, but I'd still be with him.

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nothing can be worse than deception and cheating. 3, 4 or one dozen, I can bring my offsprings better off alone than accompanied by a cheater. period.