What if you find someone better?

Lifestyle Relationships
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Hi every1!
Ok,let’s say,if you are in a relationship with a guy/girl.He/she is nice to you.That person is loving,caring,etc,but not that much as you would like him/her to be.Just suppose you become friends with another guy/girl,and you start feeling as if you are developing feelings for the other person because he/she appears to be just the kind of person you wanted,and you feel that person likes you too,etc.Then what will you do in such a situation?What will be approriate for you to do in that situation?Will it be ok and would it do justice to the first person if you leave him/her for the second?

PS-Iam not talking about husband/wife or fiance/fiancee relationships.Iam just asking about love relationships.

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Re: What if you find someone better?

hey
stop worrying it just an ABCD in making. Always looking.

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And what makes you think the new guy/girl would not become like the first guy/girl after you get in a “love relation” with them? :rolleyes:

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a third party should never be a reason for a break-up.

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its always a reason for a break-up :D

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**I give you the wise words of Uncle Salman Khan...

Duniya mein aye ho tou Love kar loooo...
Thora sa jee loo... Thora Thora mar looo.....

**

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very good point!
I have monkey like trend in girls. Like in africa monkey travel from tree to tree by swinging on the hanging branches.
They grab the next one before the leave previous.

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In two boats at a time … :hmmm:

But everyone strives for best … why not in this case?

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Re: What if you find someone better?

:hmmm:

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Because non-better would have surprise of his life, and not a pleasant one.

Whats the matter with you??
Have you been ,lately,talking to girls too much??

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Re: What if you find someone better?

sabr

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I never "look"....because mashallah, I already have the best of the best.

When you know you have your soul-mate, the best of the best, your knight in shining armor then there will never be a need to look any further.

If you find yourself looking, yearning or otherwise not focusing on what you have...then you dont have the right one.

IMHO.

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I heard from some American woman, "problem with marriage is that you keep meeting people that are better than your husband"

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Well..there is always going to be someone better or worse. You should focus more on things that will trigger you to stick to that "one" person throughout.

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better person in terms of wat?..if the first person is as u describe him/her to be loving,caring etc.. ask yourself ..what exactly are you really looking for? its not 'love' thats making you go to the next person but simply lust.

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So the person is loving and caring.

should that person crawl on floor to get the approval?

OK:

One may really find better person and should go for it but who knows that cycle may go on forever.

Reason why so many love marriages fall apart is the person has the mind of not being satisfied to begin with. Then gets married to the last person out of desperation or seemingly strong satisfaction. Only to find that the even last person was not good enough.

('Arranged' marriages do have many problems, but at least the person and the family is looking for few other important things also and is willing to work with the situation)

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You're not happy in your current relationship and thats why you're looking in the first place.

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Concur with what FrozenFire said. Also:

What goes around ... comes around. If you are kind of person who will move on just because you THINK you got a better person ... well then same thing will happen to you.
Because You didn't put your emotions / effor into existing relationship. If you did, you can't just move on (unless there is a strong reason)

*I used the word "THINK" because in reality there is no really better/worse. Its your preference - what you prefer.

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I say go for the next person...
here we go round the merry go round...the merry go round....