You are sensitive,
Most people are sensitive about something or the other.
and you expect things.
**We all expect things. You expect good food from a restaurant. A good movie at the theater. Loyalty from your spouse. Support from your family. You expect things from yourself.
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How big a crime is that?
Expectations are a part of human nature and life. How big or small or unreasonable your expectations are…is another issue.
Whats the solution out of it?
Out of making expectations? That’s hard. If they’re too big or unreasonable, tone it down. If you’re expecting from people who normally don’t deliver…then try developing greater self-reliance so you don’t have to depend upon them that much…and keep your expectations of such people on a lower scale. Find people who are more compatible/on the same page as you.