What I Thought and What happened

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I thought I would be an air hostess(I've told this to people so many times) but they said you're too short so I ended up becoming a housewife with 3 kids and I feel glad. :)

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I thought I'd be ruling the world by now, obviously something went drastically wrong along the way to this plan

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for a dude to run life1 just as demanding. So you ok :D

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Well I try to keep sane, I try to :D

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Shak there is a strange thing I observed. When I saw a cat fight in life1. I will tell you when I have time. You must have noticed it too.

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Observing is good otherwise women play with their catfood :(

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Aw this is fun, although in a sad way-

never thought i'd be so independent- living by myself, driving my own car and stuff, it's my third year by myself although it probably got me closer to my family than by living with them.
thought i'd be married by 24, I'm 25 and no plans to get married yet
thought i'd be working in my profession at 24, when I still have a year to go before starting to actually earn something. Kinda happy about it because i took a longer but much more desirable path- Alhamdulillah for that

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This depresses me :(

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I think the best thing about not having any plans is, you don’t have many disappointments :hmmm:

Oh wait a minute, I just realized I have never made any proper plans :frowning: Oh well, some things have turned out way better than I expected, some haven’t. Its all good.

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I always go with a flow. I had no plans when i was growing up, no expectations from anyone, no desire of materiel things what so ever. So what ever came my way, I was shocked, happy, yes sometimes sad but overall I'm very blessed and thankful of everything I have to tell you the truth.

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At 20- I thought i would get married or atleast engaged in an year or so..
At 21- I thought i wont be getting any more education after my bachelors.... was fed up with it

At 25- I am not even close to getting engaged let alone get married

    - I am halfway through to my MS and planning to do Phd.
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lots of people wanted to get married early…but couldn’t. interesting :hmmm:

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^
Nobody said that they 'wanted' to get married.. people said they 'thought they would' get married. =p

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I thought I ll be married max by 28. coz thats when my other two sisters got married too. I am 30 and still not married.

I thought i ll do M-Phil and then PhD. I couldnt do anything after my masters except some job related trainings n courses.

I thought I ll quit this firm within 3 yrs. I am still here after 8 yrs :bummer:

I wanted to be a doctor. Never even reach anywhere near to 90% marks :frowning:

I hated Economics, I did my masters in Economics :expressionless:

I wanted to be a pilot. My mom said NO.

I wanted to be an air hostess. My dad said NO.

I never thought i ll be ever alone , independent, working, having my apartment, car, money etc. but I have them all today mA.

My sisters would always say I ll be the first one in family to get married coz I was very vibrant, active and social, having lots of friends, getting everyone’s attention. Today I am not married and i dont have any social circle. but sisters are happily married and have social circles.

I though Tlk and Niksik would find me a rishta on GS but its been 2 yrs now, they have not referred me even one guppy. :grumpy:

I believe all happens with Allah’s will and there is hekmah behind it. So all is good and Allah ka shukar hai :slight_smile:

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^ awwwn Hugggiesssssss ... i thinkk getting a rishta all depends on how social ur parents are... ( talking about arranged marriages)
people keep telling me howw beautiful and responsible i am and how easy it would be to find a rishta fo rmee .. but i havent gotten even 1 dhang ka rishta so farr..

I never thought i would be able to clean a toilett and i would have to hire a maid or something to do the honor after marriagee...
after mom's beemari , i just had too :(

i always thought i would be done with my studies by the time i turn 22
i had to quit :(

growing up i always wanted to be my granpa's secretary.. or become a civil eng and work under him

he died :(

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I am kind of glad that nothing turned out the way I wanted or I would have not understood or respected the relationships and facts of life. I don't know if I am in a better place, may be not, but much more mature and clear in mind.

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Have faith in Allah and inshallah everything will get better. If there's one thing I've learned in life it is that no matter how bad things get and how bleak the outlook is, there will be a day when you will look back at that dark period of life and thank Allah for carrying you through it.

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People have told me this so many times that now whenever someone says it , i feel by BP shooting up :grumpy: and yes exactly so far i have not got any dhang ka rishta either :nahi:

Sorry to hear about your grandpa :(. May his soul rest in peace.

Rishta i believe is only n purely qismat ka khel. there are ppl of my age, who are married, but are not happy. They thing they hurried to get married, should have waited for the right person.

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**
aaaaaaaaawwwwwwwww…so what? i’m 31 and unmarried…u’ve everything else mashaa Allah :slight_smile: soon inshaa Allah, Mr. Right will knock at ur door :)**

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At 18 i thought i would be married by my mid 20s....I'm 25 and got married a lot earlier than i ever imagined at 21.
At 18 also i hoped i'd have found the man of my dreams lol, at 25 i did and am married to him yay
At 18 i thought i'd be a successful writer by now. I stopped writing several years ago and remain uninspired to this day :(
S'bout it.