Re: FROM SHAFIQ KHAN TO MS. SHAHNAZ
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*Originally posted by SHAFIQ KHAN: *
Mohtarma Shahnaz,
Through these pages, I want to thank the moderators and administration of the GUP SHUP, who provided me an opportunity to directly address to your comments which you sent to various newspapers about my complaint against Pakistan Post Office for the missing mails from abroad. There is another gentleman, Mr. Muhammad Yousaf from the United Kingdom to whom I want to thank too, who happened to be the mediator of all this communication, when he diverted my attention by letting me know that I have some interesting comments waiting to read on the GUP SHUP and if I want to respond.
Before I say further, I want to briefly introduce myself which would definitely help you to form an independent and unbiased opinion about me instead of accusing me being an ‘ungrateful’ Pakistani.
I am around 50 and living in Canada for last 12 years. At the age of 36, I was a Grade-20 Officer in the Government of Pakistan. I am a highly educated individual with seven university degrees and programs from Pakistan and Canada including, M.A (Honors) in English Major, M.A (International Relations) and Human Resources Management. Currently, I am working as Vice President Marketing in Toronto. My wife is Phd in Chemistry and works for the United Nations. I have a daughter in her final year of MBA and a son in his third year of Engineering. I have not given this detail to brag or impress you or anybody but, just to answer your question that even if I was living in Pakistan, me and my wife would be well off and well placed. My children studied in St. Michael School in Clifton from their grade-1.
Having said that, it should be clear to you that journalism is not my cup of tea and I write freelance as my passion.
It has been 4-5 weeks when by chance through search engine, I found a Pakistani-Australian site of the online paper, The Tribune International. I was amazed to see your very long but similar letter on their ‘letters’ page addressed to me with almost the same contents but more stretched than on the GUP SHUP pages. I guess, you wrote that letter to Tribune sometimes in July or in the early August. I sent a detail reply to the Editor of the tribune and repeated the e-mail 3-4 times in next 7-10 days but, the editor of the Tribune did not print my reply to you (which was highly unprofessional and dishonest of him). In the meantime, I noticed that The paper Tribune went through some renovations too. But, I guess, the operator Syed Atiq-ul Hassan is not a serious journalist and his site is not updated for weeks and he is just keeping the site to impress the Australian government that he is in the journalism business (yes business, not profession).
I did read your letter in the Tribune with attention and found that you do have some serious complaints by frontline Pakistani newspapers papers, who do not publish your
write-ups in their papers. May I suggest that, the newspapers have their own printing criteria and policy. There are one million reasons why they cannot print every letter or article from the readers. One of the reasons is that newspapers cannot carry some material which could mischaracterize a third party. This is just because, the papers are independent and impartial media and they cannot become a ‘party’ to anyone. That is the reason, I write two types of articles and letters, [a] which cannot be printed as they are somewhat obnoxious and carry abusive language against corrupt society and the second ** type which, come up to the printing criteria and are carried by the papers. The first category of letters, I mail to some 2-3000 individuals, groups, organizations, leaders, bureaucrats and newspapers in Pakistan and around the world through my mailing address book. So the basic idea would be to come across my point of view and thus I have no passion of seeing my name in the papers if they don’t print, who cares?
Though you are a housewife but you apparently appear to be an educated lady and I am sure, you must be aware of all evils and vicious side of our society in Pakistan. I can give you one thousand reasons of my complaint against Pakistan Post Office but in fact, it’s not only one institution, our entire system in Pakistan is in a bad shape. Patriotism is not something your hide even the bad parts of some one or try to deny the fact. It is the same when you catch your 10 year child puffing a cigarette and you try to hide it from your husband and let it go under the maternal love. But that would not be correct course of action as he would need to be punished not do again.
I am sure, if you are reading my articles and letters in papers, you would understand that despite being living in Canada, I have great love for my country. Earlier, I thought, only our political leaders are of this habit that they easily label their opponents calling them traitors, conspirators, enemies of the state, unpatriotic etcetera but, after in freelance journalism, I have found that common folks spare no time to label the same remarks as politicians do (as in your case) .
You are fully aware that Pakistan is bogged in foreign debts up to neck and even we import wheat and sugar from outside to survive. Is that not shame for us? The point I am trying to make here is that, in this situation, the government of Pakistan has nothing much to export and earn foreign exchange and at that point expatriates like me and hundreds of thousands living all over the world every years send billions of green money (U.S Dollar) to Pakistan and invest in businesses, industries and real estates etcetera. I was just complaining for a missing parcel and was not really talking about the parcel but the approach and character of our people in the department.
Before I close, I have a very serious and genuine complaint with you that besides a long lecture and repeated preaching on the same topic, you did not demonstrate an honest and truthful behavior in my case. You cannot show my one letter or article printed in any paper without my e-mails address at the end. First of all, I am a very busy man and secondly, I don’t have time to read all the newspapers of the world to find out who has written what about me specially, I do not read crappy papers like, Tribune International. In that case, how would I know that a lady name Shahnaz has written something about me? You could have easily sent me a copy of your e-mail. But you were really not interested in fixing the problem and simply wanted to gratify your inner to criticize me and see your comments printed in paper? This is not a good gesture, specially for a woman.
I want to close my letter with the note to ask apologies if unknowingly or in ignorance I hurt your or any body else’s feelings by lodging complaint against Pakistan Post Office.
May God bless you and stay away from all troubles.
SHAFIQ KHAN
CANADA
[email protected]
October 01, 2004
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Dear Mr. khan, despite of your long response to Ms Shenaz's letter, you are still not able to come up with one logical reason of why you accused whole PAKISTANI NATION to be DISHONEST? Nowhere in your response at GUPSHUP, did you deny using such harsh words against the whole Pakistani nation. Therefore, it is safe to assume that you did use such language in your letter.
Given the headache you had to face because of the mishandling of your mail by Pakistan Postal Department, your frustration is understandable. But the way you chose to express your frustration is not decent, to say the least. It becomes more objectionable to accuse the whole nation of dishonesty especially when you served the very same nation with distinction.
You and for that matter every one has a right to criticize the country’s wrong policies and countrymen’s wrong attitudes. No one should question your patriotism in this regard. But what makes criticism productive is its quality and the solutions prescribed by the critic to get out of the mess. You yourself admitted using “somewhat obnoxious and abusive language” against corrupt society in some of your letters. Producing letters or articles with “obnoxious and abusive language” will not have any positive effects no matter how sincere your efforts may be. Given you educational background, it is hard to understand why you would choose such language anyways. Remember, even healthy criticism is fruitful only when expressed in a civilized manner.
And in end, there is a limit to every thing. Probably, America is one of the freest societies in the world. You will find articles here in which the writers may have torn down the American institutions, American political system, and American organizations; yet, you will not find even the most liberal writer accusing the whole American nation of a certain ill. Why, because it reflects negatively on the whole nation.
I hope I am not being rude. And if I do, I sincerely apologize. My only intention is to make sure that the criticism of our country is in positive direction.