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ok lemme start

:yawn: I m pretty tired actually bit still I ll feel alot better if I get this of my chest. I appologize for my somewhat rude words in advance :slight_smile:

GS is just nt what it used to be. :slight_smile:
Agreed there are alot of nice peeple here, and great peeple aswell.
But there also alot of grown ups inhere acting like plain sshles

and all I see is the good and kind mods, deleting irrelevant threads.
Maybe u guys should ban alot more peeple?
All the words comming out of some guppies fingers are like pure bllsht

I wont call anny names but we all can name a few.
ofcourse there s freedom of speach, but not if it hurts some one or is challenging or rude. Ok its ok to say something every once n a while, bit some of the peeple hear are just sick in their head :slight_smile:

It just ticks me off and some of such threads have really ruined my evening.
now I know some of u will tell me to get lost and find some other forum, but I dont think I need to remind anny one what GS is?

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DP, If I am not wrong you must talking about image gallery where people damaging other’s images in no time. The irony is that the insulting, negative comments are encurraged by same type of few other people. They are using foul and filthy language against any member any time whoever post the picture there. This is happening since last few months just after we have sleeping mod in that section.
These people were never warned and were never given any point and thier posts were never edited. Yes threads which have no images are right away closed that shows the presence of mods there but to close the thread with a funny stupid line ‘no image no thread’ , but the insults inside and foul remarks with langauge were never seen by any of the mod. New members are assuming it the part of policy and hence they never raised voice against it. should we still call it a family forum ?

The latest examples for all of your review are:

1- http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=159256

2- http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=159256#post2660415

3- http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=159256#post2660380

4- http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=159256#post2660720

5- http://www.gupistan.com/forums/showthread.php?s=&threadid=159256#post2661383

mashAllah what an improvemnet we are having on gupshup in these recent months. The words like ass, hairy asses, fcuk, are very common these days, we are for sure improving but which direction ?
In that particular thread we have seen so much disrespect, and after so many hours the insult is still on board, will that be same if it was against any team member ?

**Azkar, Fraud, Muzna, **please take few minuetes and think what I meant. Thanks

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just checked that thread.. it's actually very disturbing :-\

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those are the ones Q2 :D

Really if there s nothing done about it, I see anarchie comming up.
I mean, inxboxes being hacked, old guppies leaving because of of some guppies being rude all the time.

Even a few guppies who have been memebers for 4 /5years now are thinking about leaving because of some peeples behaviour.

I dont want to put anny mod under stress or something, but seriously, something has to be done about this.

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U lot r so f-in sensitive its unbelievable. Cant u say something without licking someones ass? Who's ever heard of honesty?
This board is so monotonous with the replies - and i'm out to change that.

Also if u look at the thread 'see kareena'^^^ my comment was in no way directed at her looks, i was talking about that thing on the side of ur face. Have u lot had a humour bypass or something?

Idiots.

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Idiots.
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u r MEAN!!!

U DONT HAVE A HEART !!!!

AND PS.GET INTO SOMEONES HEART AND SEE HOW IT FEELS!!!

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I, a self confessed ass at times am also upset by the vulgarity some posts have shown. Fita's helped us out and provided an example, thanks.

There's a clear line between humour and insult.

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You left out the words "gay", "fagg*t" and such ...

My comment was about something that was very obvious on her face. We are adults on here and should learn to take criticism, positive or negative.

My other posts were retaliatory posts made against Dutch_Paki who started the name calling and made a big deal out of nothing.

I think of this site as a good place to come, hang out, reflect on and express one's self. It would be wrong to supress what someone has to say just because others did'nt like it. We woul dbe in a very different world if everyone liked the same things or had the same views.

I'd like to point out the multiple hate threads that have been opened just to "flame" me. Is that fair?

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:yawn:

now there s the mistake. If ev everyone had the same views or liked the same things there wouldnt be anny wars nor rude words etc.

And still there s a difference between critical and just being rude. :slight_smile:
and you my friend, were the last one. Thats a thing we can conclude cuz of all the ‘hate’ threads against you.
Maybe you should check yourself and find out why peeple are opening hate threads for you :slight_smile:

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Opnions again. Is being rude a crime? You were rude to me in the post that opened that can of worms where you flamed me.

Could you please stop suggesting me what to do, how to act and stop forcing your wil onto me?

Exactly, like you can open a hate thread with your opinions on how much of a "bad" person I am, so can I give my "rude" opinion about anything I see fit.

"there wouldnt be anny wars nor rude words etc", comparing WARS to RUDE WORDS. what kind of reasoning is that? And I hope your comment about "everyone being the same" was a joke, because everyone is unique and should be allowed to express themselves. You, of course, don't seem to believe in that.

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Samael: *
Could you please stop suggesting me what to do, how to act and stop forcing your wil onto me?

[/QUOTE]

what DP is trying to say is that, this site is not owned by US government, so it has some limitations for members when they open thier any mouth.
The rules for this site clearly stated that this site and member are NOT allowed to make any negative and insulting comments to any member at any forum.
Image gallery is very sensitive section and which require so much courrage to post a person his/her image, and it is possible that their families and friends might be watching it, and no families will allow thier daughter or son to be disgusted the way we have seen in this particular thread. And I am sure if you were the member of that family, you will not appreciate these type of comments either.
Human are made by God and they have no choice to change thier feature by own. This is also considered as social crime to taunt a person for his/her looks. Put yourself or your family member in that place and then read that thread again.

and If you think this is not enough to understand, then you have to just follow these rules set by admins, and this is for all no matter how open minded and dirty minded is any one, but they need to follow the rules while they are posting on this site.
cio

Rules for Personal - Friends and Family

We all hope to make this place a friendly, fun-filled, enjoyable experience for everyone. To this end, we will like to have minimal interference by the administrators/moderators. We hope to implement a hands-off policy to keep the forum spontaneous and interesting.

Having said that, we all realize that this website prides itself in developing a web-culture, rivalled by none. A culture of friendliness, warmth and fun. This means, the ideals and etiquettes of the participants in these forums should also reflect the best of our cherished culture and values.

The facility of posting images provides our participants' a way to share their views and their thoughts; woven around images. These pictures may be your own, or borrowed off the net or of any other interesting subject.

After careful consideration of the views expressed by our members we decided to formulate policies governing this forum, which, we hope, will make for consistency in standards, and will provide a homely, safe environment for our participants.

POLICIES FOR IMAGES

When a picture is posted by a participant (especially personal pictures) no tempering/editing/modifying of the picture is allowed, without the prior permission of the participant. All the copyright rules are applicable. Any complaints by the participants will be dealt with swiftly. Perpetrators may be penalized with or without warning.

No pornographic, immoral or gory pictures are allowed. We hope to implement a standard which reflects those implemented by reputed national publications in Pakistan. This means, for instance, that you are free to post the pictures of the movie stars of your dreams, but the picture should not be vulgar or immodest. And yes, this applies to pictures of both males and females.

The comments posted should be in good taste. Especially when you are commenting on the picture of a fellow participant.

If you have 'borrowed' the picture from another archive, don't forget to provide credit to the original location/person.

Pictures that offend any religion/sect/race are not allowed.

This forum will be carefully monitored, however for any abuse or breach of these policies, or for any comments, please feel free to email [email protected]. You can also email me, if you wish. We also encourage members to self-regulate the forum. If you notice any participant is crossing the limits, please point it out in the thread.

Important:

The Administration, while doing its utmost to ensure a safe environment, wishes to assume no responsibility for any unauthorized use of pictures posted in this forum. This forum is a public domain. Please use your own best judgement, when posting pictures.

We wish you to have a great, hangama-filled, mazaydaar time here. So keep your cameras rolling, and keep posting

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Fita: *
U lot r so f-in sensitive its unbelievable. Cant u say something without licking someones ass? Who's ever heard of honesty?
This board is so monotonous with the replies - and i'm out to change that.

Also if u look at the thread 'see kareena'^^^ my comment was in no way directed at her looks, i was talking about that thing on the side of ur face. Have u lot had a humour bypass or something?

Idiots.
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I had typed in the same tone you talk, but then I decided not to post here. I had used all street words like u used in this post and other posts, but then I thought there should be some difference left.

you may also read my above reply.
cio

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Could you please point me where I mentioned anything about rules, US or government? Because I can't find it?

[quote]
The rules for this site clearly stated that this site and member are NOT allowed to make any negative and insulting comments to any member at any forum.
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I don't see where it "clearly" says no "negative", "insulting", "any member' or "at any forum"? Could you please tell me where I can read this?

I don't see where I insulted her? I just voiced my opinion. It's constructive criticism. There' nothing wrong with what I said.

[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Q2: *

what DP is trying to say is that, this site is not owned by US government, so it has some limitations for members when they open thier any mouth.
The rules for this site clearly stated that this site and member are NOT allowed to make any negative and insulting comments to any member at any forum.
Image gallery is very sensitive section and which require so much courrage to post a person his/her image, and it is possible that their families and friends might be watching it, and no families will allow thier daughter or son to be disgusted the way we have seen in this particular thread. And I am sure if you were the member of that family, you will not appreciate these type of comments either.
Human are made by God and they have no choice to change thier feature by own. This is also considered as social crime to taunt a person for his/her looks. Put yourself or your family member in that place and then read that thread again.

and If you think this is not enough to understand, then you have to just follow these rules set by admins, and this is for all no matter how open minded and dirty minded is any one, but they need to follow the rules while they are posting on this site.
cio

Rules for Personal - Friends and Family

We all hope to make this place a friendly, fun-filled, enjoyable experience for everyone. To this end, we will like to have minimal interference by the administrators/moderators. We hope to implement a hands-off policy to keep the forum spontaneous and interesting.

Having said that, we all realize that this website prides itself in developing a web-culture, rivalled by none. A culture of friendliness, warmth and fun. This means, the ideals and etiquettes of the participants in these forums should also reflect the best of our cherished culture and values.

The facility of posting images provides our participants' a way to share their views and their thoughts; woven around images. These pictures may be your own, or borrowed off the net or of any other interesting subject.

After careful consideration of the views expressed by our members we decided to formulate policies governing this forum, which, we hope, will make for consistency in standards, and will provide a homely, safe environment for our participants.

POLICIES FOR IMAGES

When a picture is posted by a participant (especially personal pictures) no tempering/editing/modifying of the picture is allowed, without the prior permission of the participant. All the copyright rules are applicable. Any complaints by the participants will be dealt with swiftly. Perpetrators may be penalized with or without warning.

No pornographic, immoral or gory pictures are allowed. We hope to implement a standard which reflects those implemented by reputed national publications in Pakistan. This means, for instance, that you are free to post the pictures of the movie stars of your dreams, but the picture should not be vulgar or immodest. And yes, this applies to pictures of both males and females.

The comments posted should be in good taste. Especially when you are commenting on the picture of a fellow participant.

If you have 'borrowed' the picture from another archive, don't forget to provide credit to the original location/person.

Pictures that offend any religion/sect/race are not allowed.

This forum will be carefully monitored, however for any abuse or breach of these policies, or for any comments, please feel free to email [email protected]. You can also email me, if you wish. We also encourage members to self-regulate the forum. If you notice any participant is crossing the limits, please point it out in the thread.

Important:

The Administration, while doing its utmost to ensure a safe environment, wishes to assume no responsibility for any unauthorized use of pictures posted in this forum. This forum is a public domain. Please use your own best judgement, when posting pictures.

We wish you to have a great, hangama-filled, mazaydaar time here. So keep your cameras rolling, and keep posting
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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Samael: *
Could you please point me where I mentioned anything about rules, US or government? Because I can't find it?

I don't see where it "clearly" says no "negative", "insulting", "any member' or "at any forum"? Could you please tell me where I can read this?

I don't see where I insulted her? I just voiced my opinion. It's constructive criticism. There' nothing wrong with what I said.

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Where did I said YOU pointed about US government ?
and you said you can't see where it says how to behave in image gallery ?
and now you asking where you have insulted member ? you really have gutts to fool around people as that thread is sent to review forum and you might be thinking that people will not find what you have written, but wait here you go!
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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Q2: *

Where did I said YOU pointed about US government ?
and you said you can't see where it says how to behave in image gallery ?
and now you asking where you have insulted member ? you really have gutts to fool around people as that thread is sent to review forum and you might be thinking that people will not find what you have written, but wait here you go!

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Do you even comprehend english?

I know what I said and to me this is not an insult? Show me below where I "insulted" her?

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You did not add a pic of the post before this one where Dutch_Paki calls me "gay" and "fagg*t"? This was a retalitory post for him. He started and I'm going to answer back. Simple as that.

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So what else you got? Because you sure seem to have alot of free time on yours hands.

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english you said ? ok read again that DP said NO ONE Called You Gay, where did he called you Gay ?
and if you can not see insult still then wait for admin to come and see what they say about this. till then chill out. and yes I told you will be amazied to see this saved things which surely took time, but it worth and now it paid off.
laters when admin wake up :wave:

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I feel insulted he reffered to me as gay and fa*gg like you think I insulted that girl.

Are you threatning me with the admins? I’ll be happy with whatever the admins decide. Why you worried about it. It’s just a forum your taking it way to seriously.

I’m glad you saved everything, make sure you look at it daily, you migh tlearn something.

I’m “chill out” your the one putting your panties in a bunch. Your a funny little man and snitch!

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[QUOTE]
*Originally posted by Samael: *

I feel insulted he reffered to me as gay and fa*gg like you think I insulted that girl.

[/QUOTE]

now you are learning that actually he did not called you a gay, it is good going now, keep it up and now its time over for my baby sitting, cio good night.

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Huh? Please repeat what you just said? :confused:

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Sam why are you even wasting your time with them? It's useless..

Just stay cool...