So what happens when your spouse/gf/bf in an arguement or otherwise says..
You are with me because of my
-money
-house
-status
or whatever reason they say…
I know it hurts a lot but how do you deal with it???
Do you forgive them and move on?? If you do .. do you forget what they’ve said?
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You let her and yourself calm down and then ask her if she really means that . Most probably she will say “No honey , I was just angry” . Problem solved :k:
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it did'nt happened so far to me
has not happened to me either, and if he ever did say it i would
What money
What house
What status
I brought all that with me 
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you should be like actually it was because ammi abu told me so
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well idk but it is something that ppl say a lot. Not sure if they really mean it when they say.
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You would let them know their words hurt you and its not right to say such things even in anger.
He has some making up to do.
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nevr happen to me so cant tell u - but i'd tell um dooooo 1
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I would be like well duhh what did you think I actually LOVE u? followed by hysterical laughter.
It would put him straight to never go down that route again once we've made up
But I wouldn't really advise that
Never Listen To Lama!
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wow that would suck! That's why ladies...you need to be able to stand on your own two feet and not rely on men!!
So what happens when your spouse/gf/bf in an arguement or otherwise says.. You are with me because of my -money -house -status or whatever reason they say...
I know it hurts a lot but how do you deal with it??? Do you forgive them and move on?? If you do .. do you forget what they've said?
Its cause xyz was taken.
tummne nahin pata, mere liye general ke rishtai ai thai, haaan!
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give a zabardast tamancha(slap)
…then ask…Ab akal aai k aur dun???
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Why wud that even hurt? Your reply shud simply be ''well you need a good looking gal to spend all of that dont you!'' (That was lame) But you know something along those lines.
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You could respond back by saying " shakal dekhi hai apni, yeh sab kuch na hota phir tumse kis ne shadi kerni thi" or
“shukar hai tumhain pata chal gaya warna isi khush fehmi mainr ehte keh main tumhari khoobsurati pe fida howi thi” 
So what happens when your spouse/gf/bf in an arguement or otherwise says.. You are with me because of my -money -house -status or whatever reason they say...
I know it hurts a lot but how do you deal with it??? Do you forgive them and move on?? If you do .. do you forget what they've said?
if she said that to me, I'd have to agree with her...
it would be the truth after all. ameen... sum ameen...
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A man told his wife he wanted to work in the yard naked since it was too hot outside!
Wife said: "Please don't. The neighbors will think I married you for your money!" :)
Just agree with whoever says that "you married to me for money, status etc." That will hurt the person back!
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You probably need to watch what you're saying or doing that your spouse has these underlying feelings which only erupt in an argument.
He probably does mean it. He probably does have a suspicion that you're not with him for the right reasons.
It's your responsibility to reassure your partner you are with them because of THEM, not their material belongings.
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^^thats the best response i hv read so far along with PSquared's response :)
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these things will never happen if you go for work and let him now that you can be also very independet. it will be very hard for me to ask my hone wala husband permanently for money, so i will never give upmy work till we get a baby :-) i think nowadays you have to think that way so that you be on one´s own.