Re: What happens next
I think it’s different from family to family, but when I got married all my devars (husbands male cousins in this case) were suppose to sit in my lap in return for money. I seriously don’t know myself why they do this but an aunty told me it’s to strengthen that devar-bhabhi bond … as bhabiji is considered to be a second mommy to the devars in some families.
I still don’t get it LOL as most of the devars are older than me. It’s kinda creepy and puts the new bhabhi in an awkward situation. Thank god no one actually sat in my lap .. I just gave them money anyway haha.