i was just talking to a friend of mine, who broke up with a guy she was with for a couple of years. this guy really hurt her because he was a liar…and i even think he was with another girl when she was with him…and thats the reason they broke up. for a couple of months she was really hurt and it was sad to see that (amongst all the other sad stories u hear about people breaking up). so i was talking to her and she said she came across the following on a website…she saw some pics of the guy with another girl (which were taken at a time when my friend was with him)…cuz date was written! that proves the guy was cheating on her…but the way he left her…he did it in a way to make her feel that its her fault that they;re not together…to shift the blame.
on the website where she saw his pics with another girl, there was also a poem about “I love you” where his and her names were written (i.e the new girl he is with)…and my friend also showed me the following that was written for the new girl (he had saved it on a website…but didnt intend anyone else to see it …cuz no1 else knew about this site…however my friend still managed to come across it somehow)..
she showed me the following that was written on the same page with the pics and poem (for the other girl):
***"A (girls name), ***
***Your father and brother are a shameful disgrace. Ignorance and racism displayed by them is what is killing India. They have no honor and respect either for self or people, and they have brainwashed you with these ugly qualities. They have brainwashed you and turned you into a sick dirty bed hopping whore. ***
***They have narrowed your mind obscured your view of reality and killed any small piece of worth that you had. ***
***They have earnt nothing but evil for you and themselves. And you have blindly fallen into their filthy pit. ***
***If you do not wake up, You will soon learn how they have ruined your life. ***A (girls name), it will soon be too late for you to wake up. It will soon be too late for you to come home.
B (his name)."
she asked me what i thought of this…and i said to me it seems like he is even having problems with the 2nd girl (im not surprised since hes had about 5/6 girls in total!). he always made my friend feel guilty about things and used to use the above kind of words and call my friend “evil” and “paranoid” etc…seems like he does it to all girls
what does everyone else think? and isnt it weird that she came across this randomly…its like she was meant to read it…i mean he couldve emailed the above to the A girl…but it was on a website (although not made public)…strange. its true, what goes round does come round too..
I’m confused about the situation. Who was that letter written for, the first girl?
But yeah, generally speaking, what comes around goes around. Even if that person is not punished in this life, they will face some punishment in the hands of Allah; in situations where one si completely powerless I think that is the only thing that would give them any sort of relief/closure.
that letter was written for the most recent girl…i.e. he left the first girl for the second one …and this is what he wrote to the second girl…who it seems like has left him for someone else (which is why hes calling her a whore)
Impulse let your friend you and please keep a note for yourself. To blame someone for Zina - there is a huge punishment for it. If other person hasn't committed it the person who spreads the news gets the gunnah.
As far as what goes around it comes around. Once someone does something bad to you - either go up and beat the crap out of them and knock some sense right there right in front of their face instead of sitting behind their back and bashing them. Because that usually doesn't get one far in life :~)
And whoever wrote that thing. I swear people need to think 10 times before even thinking of those things that they can be a father of a daughter one day.
Yar log bhool jate hain every single thing we do is being written by ...farishtey on our shoulders.. i dont know about you guys but thats scares me..
